I have a lot of fantasies and things I'd love to explore, but frankly not all fantasies are even compatible within the same lifestyle, so I figure I'll make this post to try and reflect the highest priorities and ideally one of those is something leading to a life long partnership.
Me: I'm a 34 year old, white male. 5'10" with a fairly average build. I've been working a lot on my health recently and hope you would too. I'm a software engineer and my job is extremely stable and capable of providing for 2 people fairly easily. I like video games, stream on twitch occasionally (you can see the videos after chatting a bit). I play social sports in the area, enjoy exploring breweries and wineries. And I actually quite enjoy cooking.
Kinks: I generally like to be dominant.
cnc/free use is a big one. there are a few forms this can take I know, and I'm interested in a lot of them. possibly not the same dynamic all the time.
Spanking. I like spanking as both something fun and as a disciplinary tool. It's weird because making rules is fun, but a brat needing a lot of discipline is fun too. My ideal is daily submission to a session of spanking and depending on the description of the day/adherance to rules/ect, creating a structure based on that.
Outfit control. I like to dress you up however I like. I could do that every day for every outfit, but it's also fine if this is just some of the time, but I don't just mean around the house, I mean what you will wear out also.
Anal.
There are others but I think this is a good start and I'd like to hear and incorporate yours for sure if they're compatible.Looking forward to hearing from you. You can be anywhere, but remember the goal would be to one day relocate you here. I am satisfied with my job and would like to stay here.
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