Hello kinksters :),

I'm a 31 year-old bondage submissive living in Western NC, in the region between Asheville, Charlotte, and Hickory. Lately, I've been searching for a bondage top with a matching enthusiasm for bondage and a desire to restrain a male-bodied submissive with rope, tape, or whatever your bondage implement of choice may be --- I've tried them all and immensely enjoyed each.

I'm low-drama in the sense that I'm in it almost exclusively for the bondage: many people in the bdsm scene see bondage as a way to spice up other types of scenes (and there's nothing wrong with that!), but for me, bondage is by far the most appealing part of bdsm. If I find a bondage partner, I won't be especially interesting in nagging you for other types of play or sexual contact; for me, my interest in bdsm largely begins and ends with bondage. All that said, I'm open-minded.

My ideal here would be a regular bondage partner --- maybe a rigger who is interested in practicing different shibari ties or someone who enjoys tie-up games. I'm open to switching to an extent, but I lean far more bottom/submissive than top/dominant.

The non-kinky me:

• I'm 5'10" with dark hair, dark eyes, and fair skin. I've managed to achieve a toned and muscular build from regular weightlifting (I look strong and athletic, though I don't exactly look like a powerlifter or a bodybuilder.)
• I'm employed and just finished a Master's Degree.
• I have an interest in books and media related to sci-fi themes, and I've been getting more into PC gaming lately (I just finished up Far Cry 5 and am getting read to try Jedi: Fallen Order).

I'm currently not in a position to host, but I'd be willing to meet in public for vetting purposes. There are several Rope Bites and other bondage-focused events in this region; that might be a safe way for us to meet in a relatively low-stakes way. I'm willing to negotiate about most aspects of meeting up for a promising play opportunity, especially with partners who are articulate and conscientious.

I'm most interested in playing with people relatively close to my age (say, 20 --- 45), though those aren't necessarily hard limits. I'm also open to riggers of any skill level; I'm happy to be your rope test dummy as long as you seem responsible and have good judgement.

If anything I've said here interests you, please feel free to reach out! Messages and chats are welcome :)