Hi! My name is Amara. I’m 20 and female. I’m currently a college student about to finish her fourth semester of college. This is not my first post, but if you've never seen my ad before here we go!

In March 2020, I was told by a friend of mine how submissive I acted because I always wanted to please everyone. Well this was right before COVID hit, I ended up with ALOT of time to do research and learn about the sexual side of being submissive. It was through reading erotica and watching a bit of porn that I found I wanted to participate as well.

Over the last two years of searching, I've had a lot of fun, and I would say I'm definitely beyond the beginner's stage of BDSM. I have some experience under my belt. I'm not an infant anymore, and I would not like to be treated like one.

A bit about me before we continue: the first 16 years of my life were quite sheltered. I come from a deeply Islamic family, so watching porn and reading erotica was quite a change for me. I still wear a hijab regularly and am quite conservative in my dress otherwise. As you may be able to guess, I did not even start masturbating till 2020.

Outside of the lifestyle, I am quite nerdy, and enjoy reading and playing some video games while having Youtube or Twitch open on the side. On Friday's, I participate in a local Pokemon TCG league, and I play Magic Commander with other friends semi regularly. Currently, I am living in a one bedroom apartment on my college's campus.

With the above said, what do I think I’m looking for? I’m looking for someone (male or female) to inject some lets call it excitement into my life. I want someone intelligent and curious; someone who can carry a conversation if needs be as I am quite quiet once we start. If you are reading this, please add jester lavorre to your reply. I want someone to push me as far as they want; in some ways, I do not want to have a choice in several things. Rules and one on one sessions are things I'm interested in specifically. One on one sessions being where you give me real time orders and I follow them. Tasks you give me and then expect me to do and report back on have lost their appeal to me; its not personal enough for me!

My school schedule, along with working at a sandwich shop, does have me quite busy, but I want to try to find someone who is willing to work around that.

Kink wise, I’ve tried and enjoyed humiliation, degradation, anal, public and orgasm denial.

Limit wise, I'm still learning, but I do know I will probably never submit pics/cam/audio to anyone trying to become my dom. I’m sorry, but the chances of blackmail are WAY too high, and I’m not willing to be that kind of victim. Also, I know the difference between Hard and Soft limits. These are definitely HARD limits. My limits also include gags/deep throating anything, food play, and window play.

If you read the above and are still interested, please send me a DM. Due to reddit clearly being in between chat services at the moment, I am only replying to DM's. No chat requests until I request it! and YES they are working because I have been getting them from others. Trying to tell me it's not working is either a clever lie or something technical on your end. Bonus points to anyone that actually puts effort into it.