Ultimately what I seek is a nesting/anchor partner for marriage. Romantic, sexual, and power exchange. However, the compatibility it requires makes finding that a long term prospect. So for now my hope is to find someone to play with. It can be casual, it can be serious, it can be anywhere in between. What it can’t be is intentionally one time only or online only. Physical touch is my primary love language so we’ll need to be able to meet.

So what kind of play do I offer?

It ranges from sensual to brutal to sexual and nearly everything in between. The things I have the most experience with are impact play and other forms of pain play, orgasm control play, rope and device bondage, breath play, electricity, CNC, sharps, aftercare, cuddling, kissing, power exchange, and more. My limits are: anything involving people who have not consented or cannot consent (public play and children), long term distance, and switching.

A little about me: I’m a calm and loving person. I’m passionate and down to earth. I believe in consent and respect. I am deeply kinky and equally as deeply empathic. I am a philosopher so if you like endlessly discussing the ultimate nature of reality we’ll get along. I don’t have much shame, I don’t really have secrets, I believe in honest and direct communication. I have never had alcohol, smoked, or taken drugs that weren’t prescribed. I stay away from caffeine for the most part and most over the counter meds. I do not judge anyone who does any of the above. I am a shy extrovert. I am a hard leftist. I do my best to help people. I am a kink life coach. I love learning and teaching. I also love writing dark erotica. Ask me and I might write your deepest darkest fantasy into a story. I’m obviously more than what I’ve written here. I believe in taking time to get to know people even if our relationship is going to be casual. I’m an open book and I’m happy to exchange verification pictures when the time is right.

I have a house and a large play space so I can definitely host. I’m able to travel to meet you on occasion as well.