I've considered posting on here for a while, but now that I've just moved back to London after working abroad for several years, it feels like a good time to do so.

My aim with this post is to be as clear and as open as possible, but if I've left anything out, just ask me.

PERSONAL:

I am going to be careful not to go into too much detail for privacy reasons (and that includes pictures, but I'll be happy to share them via chat/DM).

I'm from the UK originally, Oxbridge-educated, and I work in the technology sector (at a senior management level). I've lived abroad a lot for work, and I continue to travel quite regularly, both for work and for fun.

Physically, I'm 5'11 / 181cm, with a slim fit build, but not a muscular/gym body type. Short dark hair, well groomed, and generally considered attractive. I also put an emphasis on dressing well, and I look good in a suit.

I'm single, and over the years I've come to realise that I am best suited to a solo poly lifestyle. I've had serious, long-term monogamous relationships in the past, but ultimately I have concluded that the standard 'relationship escalator' (house, marriage, kids, etc.) just doesn't suit me personally. And I am fortunate to be able to say that I have had some wonderful and meaningful connections since starting to explore the solo poly lifestyle.

It's probably also a good opportunity to mention, just before I get on to the BDSM side of things, that I'm an avowed and vocal feminist, and a lefty in general.

BDSM:

I've been exploring and experiencing BDSM for over 15 years now, with a number of partners and a variety of different dynamics and levels of intensity). And I think the best thing about it is that you can never run out of new things to enjoy - you can only run out of imagination.

For me, it's the psychological aspect that is truly hot, and that is what keeps me coming back again and again.

I will get far more turned on hearing about your deepest darkest sexual fantasies and desires than I would from seeing some nudes, for example (though nudes are always fun - but they're more fun if they are in the context of a particular kink...). And I will want to explore those fantasies with you, and gradually lead you deeper and deeper into experiencing them.

For my part, my top turn-ons include:

• Obedience training
• Orgasm control (including extended denial, forced edging, and forced multiple orgasms)
• Bondage of all kinds (especially predicament bondage)
• Punishments of various kinds (both physical and psychological)
• Degradation and humiliation
• Bodywriting
• Misogyny
• Raceplay
• CNC (but more psychological than physical - think things like blackmail, kidnapping and training, etc.)

I suspect that list shows pretty well my preference for the psychological side of kink...

But far and away my favourite thing is exploring my partner's kinks and fantasies, learning what depraved and degrading thing makes them desperately horny and wet, and then using that to drive them wild again and again for my enjoyment.

LOOKING FOR:

The reason I'm posting here is because I'd like to meet someone who would be interested in exploring and enjoying Dominance and submission with me in a fun, comfortable, safe and relaxed way.

More specifically, I expect that after messaging for a while, we would meet first for some drinks somewhere in public (I hope you like cocktails, as I know some great spots in London), and if we hit it off, we could retire to a nice luxurious hotel room for the night.

Assuming we have good chemistry, I would then like to invite you to join me on some fun weekends away around Europe - Lisbon, Barcelona, Marseille and Dubrovnik are currently high up on my list of destinations. During the day we would explore the city, enjoy the culture, the restaurants, and the bars - and at night you would be my hot obedient little slut for me to tease, use and enjoy.

And the added bonus comes here - I will be paying for everything mentioned above in full. I'm very fortunate to have a good career (and my career is extremely important to me), meaning I can also afford to live this particular kind of lifestyle. And if we hit it off, I'd very much like to treat you to all of those things as well - I enjoy being a generous Dom.

As a final point, I want to emphasise the importance of this being Safe, Sane and Consensual fun throughout. I don't for a second underestimate the fact that to do any of this with a strange man represents a significant risk to a woman - so this would only happen once we had gotten to know each other, and developed a sufficient degree of trust.

And with that, I look forward to hearing from you if this sounds of interest to you.