I'm just gonna dive right into this. My name is Patrick, I'm 30, and I've been involved in the BDSM scene for almost a decade now give or take. I'm located in East Northport, Long Island, so ideally you're in the area too (but I'd explore something online for the right girl). I received a bunch of great responses last time I did this but still haven't found the type of connection I'm looking for.

Anyway, I'm a Dominant, hedonist, exhibitionist, and lover of all things kinky. I'd say I'm conventionally attractive, but you can be the judge of that yourself.

Physically speaking, 5'11, 175 lbs, dark brown hair, light green/hazel eyes, slim athletic build, well maintained haircut/beard. Well dressed and I also smell great 93.8% of the time bc I'm low key obsessed with cologne.

Emotionally speaking, I'm very expressive and genuine, I wear my heart on my sleeve so to speak. I enjoy being affectionate as much as I enjoy being degrading. I know how to communicate effectively both in and out of the bedroom. When it comes to the dynamic, I'm really open to anything, I love everything from casual play partners to TPE but we would obviously have to build up to something like that.

The oversimplified way I'll put my ideal dynamic is this : A psychological roller coaster of emotions ranging from pure affection to complete degradation but regardless of the mood, you're still my little slutty fucktoy.

I inject a lot of emotion into the dynamic and like to play with the psychological aspects as much as the sexual. My former sub used to tell me that this is the reason why I'm so good at what I do. Like whether I'm doling out a punishment or cuddling and stroking your hair, there's always a lot of emotion behind it. Makes everything better imo

Kink wise, Bondage, orgasm control/denial, CNC, and free use are probably my absolute top fsvorites. But I'm a total perv, so I'm into basically everything that's considered a normal kink. Love bringing any and all toys into the bedroom. Impact isn't a necessity for me but I'm happy to satisfy your masochistic needs if you have them. Not into any weird shit obv, not gonna even waste time and type them out individually.

I get off a ton on giving pleasure so a large part of my focus when planning a scene goes into including your favorite kinks and stuff.

Intellect, willingness to learn, and overall connection are the most important qualities I'm looking for. I have no problem verifying myself, will send pics if you ask. PM me for my kik or my snapchat. I'm off today so I'm hoping to find someone to chat with for a while.

Priority definitely goes to those girls who are willing meet up sooner rather than later. We can grab coffee or a drink and talk about this more and see how we vibe and shit.

Also I can't remember if I mentioned this or not but it is extremely extremely important to me that you feel comfortable, safe and taken care of at all times. And that goes the same whether in the middle of a scene or the first time we meet up somewhere. Just because I might want to fuck you like a nasty little whore doesn't mean I don't genuinely care about your well being as a human.

Hope to hear from you soon!