When you start hanging around these circles - especially online - the first thing you hear from novices is "pretty much anything goes." Except that's not true at all, is it? It's for that reason I might go a little bit long here. I want you to know who I am and what I'm looking for so you can better understand it for yourself.

About Me

To give you a picture of me without posting my picture online for everyone to see: I'm 6'3", 185lbs, white, dark hair, blue eyes, short trimmed beard. I work out every day either lifting or walking but I wouldn't say I'm muscular. Lean and fit with a little around the belly I'm still trying to trim. Totally clean, don't even do drugs outside maybe the occasional hit off a friend's weed. No tats, not that I'm opposed to them but I'm indecisive about what I'd want.

I have a master's degree in a scientific field and work full time Monday to Friday. My job is extremely lax on the rules so texting during work hours is totally fair game and if you're close we could sneak away for lunch or... something else... in the middle of the day. When I was getting my degree I used to teach and I absolutely fell in love with it.

More than anything I am a huge movie buff - love going to the theater any chance I get. I frequently will challenge myself to watch a movie every day for months on end when I'm single or otherwise unoccupied. Baseball is my other passion, especially during the summer. Go Dodgers! And I'm an avid gamer. Just built a new gaming PC that is treating me well just in time to ditch it for the Switch next week to play the new Zelda.

About You

Overall, I'm a pretty chill guy and that also applies to what I'm looking for in a woman. I have a few requests: namely that you are also DDF, HWP, and somewhat stable in your daily life. Not looking for a financial support type situation. As far as physical appearance such as hair color or race or anything like that, I'm not picky. Like I said I have no tattoos but I enjoy a tatted woman. I like hearing all the stories behind each one and learning about what you're so passionate about that you'd get it printed on your body.

Looking for someone who can engage in thoughtful and interesting conversation about your passions or mine. Some people might just be here looking for good kinky sex but in my opinion, sex is only made better when it's with someone you understand and relate with inside and out.

I'd prefer if you're close enough for an in-person relationship but I also want to stress that this is not an absolute dealbreaker! I'd love to hear from someone across the country or even the world. Tell me about what the scene is like where you live and what brought you here!

About Us

Okay okay, now the kinky stuff. As I said, I fell in love with teaching while getting my degree and that applies to sex as well. I'm looking for someone who will sit pretty, listen, and do whatever it takes to get an A in the class (insert joke about getting the D instead). In return, I'm a fairly kind instructor and will take care of your emotional and physical needs.

Kinks include impact, bondage, service, worship, moderate power exchange, begging, orgasm control, bredding, hypnosis, light noncon, and exhibitionism. Limits include any form of fluid play, age play, race play, seriously roleplayed noncon, cucking, other seriously taboo topics.

One of my favorite things to do is roleplay! Obviously I kind of alluded to teacher/student, but I'd love to hear what kind of roleplays you enjoy. As mentioned above though, I do have limits on anything that might cause legal misunderstandings if overheard.

Hopefully that's enough for you to get a good idea of what I'm about?

TL;DR Dominant looking for service sub who also wants to talk about life, the universe, and everything.