After being ghosted and catfished respectively I am back here to try my luck for the last time, hoping to find a decent human being. I don’t even know how these people refer to themselves as Dominants when they lack understanding and manners.

I am a 34-year-old submissive woman who is looking for a soft Dominant man to settle down with. I am looking for a Dom who is ready to start a family so if you are between 32-44 (age is a hard limit) and ready for the next step in your life go ahead and read the rest.

I am a goal-oriented person and stubborn about the things I want to achieve in life. I am financially independent and I have a solid base here so I am looking for someone in Denmark or someone who is willing to relocate in the future (from Europe or UK). I love traveling and experiencing new cultures. Learning new languages is my passion and I am currently fluent in 4 languages and in the process of learning 2 more.

I have lived abroad for several years (half of my 20s) and I love pushing my comfort zones as an introvert. I have trust issues that are deeply rooted in my past but I am a caring person when I get closer to people. I am very submissive by nature. I don’t want a 24/7 dynamic. I have a career and I want a man who can stand by my side and support me. I want someone I can have serious conversations and share life with. I am looking for someone without children but are open to the idea of having children in the future.

As for me I am 167 cm tall and curvy. I workout 3-4 times a week. I have long reddish brown hair and brown eyes. I am ethnically not Danish. My skin is fair and I burn easily so I enjoy staying in the shadow during summer. My favourite season is winter and I love to snuggle under a cozy blanket. I tend to get attracted to men with broad shoulders and strong arms but I don’t have a type and I don’t care much about looks. I mostly get attracted to how someone expresses themselves so if you are intelligent and carry a conversation I would like to get to know you. I am looking for someone who is interested in a genuine monogamous connection. I prefer rather a soft Dom so we can explore the limits of our trust for each other.

As for kinks I am into a variety things but lately I have been obsessed with almost everything about the breeding kink. I would love for my future Dom to keep track of my cycle. As I have mentioned I am looking for someone who is ready to settle down and the impregnation will therefore not be an act but something we will pursue actively. As for other kinks I am willing to explain them in a private chat after we have established a reliable connection. Communication is important for me so if you have issues with open communication please don’t reach out.

My limits are extreme degradation and humiliation, blood, scat or piss, any extreme pain or permanent marking/damage. These are the ones that come to my mind right now. I am a reasonable person and I am willing to discuss limits but most important of all I would value trust and understanding in a D/s relationship.

I was first ghosted by a Dom I met on Reddit a few months ago. Last week I found out that another Dom that I met on Reddit and later in person turned out to be a catfish who had lied about almost every single detail of his life. If you reach out to me please be considerate and remember that I am a human being with feelings. If you don’t have the maturity to be clear about what you want from me I prefer that you stay away. Write to me if you are emotionally available to have conversations about relationships and feelings. I prefer transparency and I will not exchange any pictures or personal information until we have established a reliable connection. Please respect this.

If you have made it this far thank you for reading and please do not hesitate to reach out. I prefer longer messages where you introduce yourself and why you have decided to reach out to me.