Hello! I’m a budding bisexual submissive in search of a dominant couple to learn and grow under. I’m especially interested in exploring objectification, which for me doesn’t mean acting like an object so much as being treated like an object, i.e. 1. Instrumentality (to treat as a tool used for a purpose) 2. Denial of autonomy 3. Inertness (to treat as though lacking in agency) 4. Fungibility (to treat as though exchangeable with other objects) 5. Violability (to treat as though lacking in boundaries) 6. Ownership (to treat as though capable of being bought or sold) 7. Denial of subjectivity (to deny the validity of the subjects thoughts/feelings)

I would feel bad about borrowing those terms from feminism to get off better, but uhhh….. desire is ungovernable and “nothing good comes of forcing desire to conform to political principle” (Chu, 2018).

The title says toy, but I’m also very much into the human pet/ pet girl type vibe. I’m not really interested in acting like a particular animal (although I will say, I look cute in cat ears) but the combination of care and dehumanization really speaks to me.

I won’t bore you with the details about how I’m trying to relearn French or love to draw; I’d love to talk about hobbies at some point though, feel free to open with yours!

My interest is in in-person play, so people in (northern) California only please. I’m not particular about age or gender, although women <3 <3 <3. I’m open to a single person, not a couple- but it’s not my main focus right now.

I won’t submit to anyone I don’t trust and respect, so please don’t message me like you already own me- it’s irritatingly presumptive and puts me at risk for rolling my eyes so far back into my head my irises will never be heard from again. In order to feel comfortable being objectified, I have to know y’all think of me as a human being worthy of dignity and respect first (groundbreaking!).

I think maybe school has broken my brain (references):

Chu, A. (2018). On liking women: society for cutting up men is a rather fabulous name for a transsexual book club. N 1. 30.