Hello!

I am an inexperienced sub fairly new to the scene. I was seeing an older guy on and off for a few years who introduced me to kink, but it was never anything serious (he wasn’t a Dom), this has left me wanting to explore my submissive side with an experienced Dom.

About me (vanilla):

I just turned 25 this week! I’m single, no kids, live alone in South East UK. I’m white, 5’3, have long auburn hair, hazel eyes, often wear glasses and have an average/slightly curvy build. In my free time I enjoy spending time with friends and family, going out socialising, baking, cooking, listening to music, long country walks and travelling.

I like to be honest and upfront - I have autism (I’m high functioning), I’m able to live alone, work, drive etc. I can struggle/become overwhelmed sometimes in social situations, crowded, loud unfamiliar places but mostly I manage well and live a fairly ‘normal’ life.

Who/what I am seeking:

I am looking for an EXPERIENCED (absolute must) Dom who is caring, understanding, patient and preferably has a sadistic streak who can over time train me to become the best sub I can be. I have no interest in married men or guys who are in relationships, sorry. And I’m not into DDLG. I prefer older guys but this isn’t a dealbreaker.

My kinks:

~ orgasm control/denial ~ impact play ~ punishments ~ rules/discipline ~ breath play ~ choking ~ humiliation ~ degradation ~ CNC ~ rough sex ~ free use ~ edge play ~ TPE (eventually)

And much more!

I have my limits - no animals, kids, age play/DDLG, no scat or vomit. No permanent injury/scarring, nothing illegal.

I’d prefer we chat on here for a bit before moving to WhatsApp/telegram. I will share a photo when I feel comfortable to do so, please don’t pressure me into doing this.

Despite living alone I don’t feel comfortable hosting at mine, I see my home as my safe place and very rarely even let my friends visit, sorry.

If I’ve not put you off then feel free to message me, not a fan of just a ‘hi’ so please be creative 😁 x