Ideally looking for a Dominant with Master qualities and proclivities who isn't necessarily looking for strict M/s right now. This would be a sexual control dynamic. Anything additional you want to add to the relationship is negotiable but would be added on later.

I'm relatively assertive and confident day to day with a cute puppy-ish side.

Semi-casual, semi-intense - a D/s dynamic without romance. I like women, yet somehow feel like I'm not going to stumble across a Domme in these online waters and don't mind a male dominant in theory (that an orientation play kink makes it fairly reasonable). Casual in terms of what we're actually doing and the lack of a dedicated romantic element. Intense in that I feel and submit intensely, have a massive kink for ownership, am only looking for one dominant, and expect a dominant to feel the same - someone who deeply loves control, values his submissive, and has only one.

I do happen to be pretty naturally obedient so I'm not likely to say no if you ask me to do random small things, but sexual control is specifically what I'm looking for right now - Master/slave and TPE are my usual shtick and still fantasies I adore, but not ones that work well in practice for me. Hence the dramatic title of "Master" for a relatively simplistic dynamic. Really, I'm just very attracted to dominance, dominant traits, and looking for something sexually fulfilling with a highly attentive partner.

The Kink - Orgasm Control

Orgasm control has always been "meh" for me, but I wonder if I just haven't done it with someone who actually takes the time to understand me, it's always been an offhanded supplement. Even so, I frequently fantasize about my partner finishing without regard for whether I have or not.

If you are attentive (at your phone or computer with your notifications on) and responding with reasonable frequence, I am open to full masturbation control and would be at your command.

If you are not available for certain periods, I am open to you controlling my orgasm, but not whether I masturbate or not. Example: I can masturbate while you're at work, but can't finish until you're home and see the message, that's fine. However asking if I can touch myself and you not seeing the message for hours feels like calling out into the void in an abandonment sort of way and isn't hot for me.

Masturbation is anxiety reduction for me, so it's important that either it or an alternative, like your company, available in some way most of the time. Orgasm itself, or how I touch myself is less important.

Chastity and longer term denial is technically within the realm of your control while we're in an arrangement but not something I've explored as if I don't get aroused for long periods of time, I lose interest in sex to begin with. I also don't think I get horny from edging, or at least never have before.

The Dominant (hopefully!)

Really looking for someone who can articulate what they gain from this dynamic, and who is gaining something from what I have to offer. While I seek to please naturally and often anticipatorily, I very much want to please someone by being myself, offering what I have to offer.

I do not want a "set a schedule, go do your thing" dominant. I'd like someone who is actively interested in how I'm doing, even if only sexually. I'm exclusively interested in voice chat & texting, I gain nothing out of sending pictures. I don't mind finding porn for you, other small acts of service, or whatever creative ideas you might have, I just know my boundaries.

Toys

• Rose - clitoral vibrator, suction based. Three intensity settings that work for me.
  • only usable on my back or while seated & leaning back in order to maintain a proper seal
  • typically this is the only thing I use and can climax from (45m avg), and needs charging every 60m of use. Past 45m it gets weaker. I'd like to have more for the times it takes longer to finish
  • hyper-creativity and swapping between toys isn't necessary, I typically just use the rose and am happy with just that The toy list is for your perusal and enjoyment.
• Gel Cock, 5 inch dildo, softer and bendable, good for sucking and deepthroating, clear with balls and suction cup
• Hard Toy, 5 inch dildo, good for anal/vaginal penetration, hurts a bit if I go too deep, has a base without a suction cup
• Black Wand, vibrator, used as a wand to hold against clit. Not actually that thick or long (slightly thicker than a dildo at the widest point) so it's insertable for deep vibrations that can be intense and painful. Not strong enough to reach clitoral climax with.
• Vaginal plugs, 2 sizes, you forget about them after a while if stationary. Would add some stimulation if walking around or training for a toy bigger than what I have.
• Anal plugs, I have two, 4 inches long but thin. One is beaded and one is straight and black, they get uncomfortable/painful if worn for more than a short period of time. Can make it easier to cum by adding stimulation or increasing arousal/pain in a punishment manner
• Rope, 2x 8 ft (not interested in bondage right now, just thought I'd mention it!)
• Long Wooden Paddle

[Considering Purchase]

• Ball Gag w/ a cover
• Strap-on harness
• Thrusting vaginal/anal plug
• Clit & Nipple Pumps (they're a little scary but I like suction so it might work)
• Fucking machine - requires lots of setup and difficult to use without careful prep. I have a cheap one but I'm missing the power cord so I am considering upgrading to a Bluetooth machine if I ever had a partner who really wanted one.

Sexual Information

• Orgasms take 45 minutes on average. I can range from 4-120 minutes depending on how focused I am and how much additional stimulation is added.
• I can orgasm clitorally & through the g-spot (but this is messy). Not vaginally (though I've never been penetrated enough to really know). I love anal and enjoy deepthroating, so anal orgasms and throatgasms might be possible but who knows!
• All of my dildos are 5 insertable inches and typically equal to or slightly smaller in girth than the average penis.
• I get off about two times a day.
• My view of gender roles in Dom/sub encounters is traditional: if the dominant wants me to have something I don't already want, you can get it for me. I have plenty already though, and variety should not be an issue if you're both interesting and highly interested in orgasm control yourself.

Kinks: primal, control, 24/7, misogyny, 1950s, traditional gender roles, orgasm control, CNC, dubcon, ownership, claiming, light petplay

If interested, please send me a chat or message with your Discord, your experience with D/s, and what thoughts you have about this sort of dynamic. A vocaroo is always appreciated. Is this exactly what you've been looking for? Or something that's drawn your eye? What would this fulfill for you? Why are you interested?