DISCLAIMER:

Some people seem to conflate an interest in CnC and the power dynamics that come with it with an actual desire to cause harm to a non-consenting person.

I do not, and have no desire for any non-consensual happenings.

Here's a little about me (from my profile):

I find that stimulating your partner's mind is far more important than simply going for the erogenous zones and prodding until you hear them, moan, or scream, or cry. I firmly believe that the scene begins long before anyone's clothes come off.

It all hangs on mutual trust and a desire to have a fulfilling shared experience.

Without said trust, there's no hope in maintaining any form of relationship, be it platonic or sexual. Being the trusted someone in control when you're at your most vulnerable is, to me, the most important aspect of being the dominant partner in a power dynamic. After all, if you can't trust me to stop when you say so, if you can't trust me to respect your limits while trying to push your boundaries, or if you can't trust me enough to give your all, then I've failed.

I don't expect to gain your trust in one day, one date, or one encounter. I understand that people are different and have different ways to gauge whether or nor someone is trustworthy. So hopefully after we converse and enjoy each other's company enough for a mutual trust to being forming, we can continue to build.

I am not a criminal, and I am not a monster. I just play one on tv.

Don't yuck my yum simply becuase you don't share it, alright?

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You've always enjoyed the idea of having your agency ripped away, right? To be at the mercy of a being too strong for you to resist, and too caught up in his own desire to hear your pleas.

It could be because you're a professional who must be dependable and strong where your subordinates and coworkers are ineffective and weak.

It could be becuase you're a repressed Honor Roll addict who is forced to choose between your grades and relationships, but is too ashamed of the perceptions of your peers to have casual sex.

You could be in an unfulfilling relationship where your wants and desires are too "intense" or "disturbing" for your partner to handle.

Maybe you have survived some form of trauma, and this is how you reclaim your sense of self, and bodily autonomy.

At the end of the day, your reasons don't matter to me. When we meet, you are nothing more than a warm hole for me to use and enjoy until I am satisfied.

I will find your limits, and I will push you to them. I will wipe your tears, and force you to lick the salt from my fingers.

I will pin you to the bed as you fight and struggle. Your arms will be twisted behind your back. Your face will be slapped and your hair will be pulled. Your throat will be fucked, and your drool will be smeared over your face with my open hand.

I will hold you by your throat, press my forehead against yours, and gaze into your fear-widened eyes as you get wetter with each thrust.

You will feel each muscle in my body tense up as I prepare to mark and breed you. You will feel my teeth sink into the crook of your neck, and how my tongue traces a line from there, to your earlobe.

You will feel the heat of my breath, and hear the low growl that rises from my throat when I can no longer hold back, and how I pull you close so you can't spill a drop.

You will feel what it's like to be taken, ravished, and seeded.

You will learn love every minute, and thank me for all that I do for, to, and with you.

Sometimes I'm a little scared of what I'm capable of, and who I become when I'm "in character," but I think it enhances the rush for me when all is said and done.

As long as the person I'm with consents 100%, and I don't have any worries about their communication abilities, then the only limits are the ones we agree upon before a session or scene begins.

Informed consent is the bare minimum for me. I will never do anything that was not previously discussed.

I can say that my kinks stem from trauma. I've found that I get release, both mental and sexual, from being able to express that kind of malice, but on my own terms, in an environment that I know is safe and that I have control over.

Well, you have control over. As the sub, the real power rests with you. I can only do what you consent to. Anything else is just abuse masquerading as kink.

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I know that this was a lot to read, but I try to take a kink with so much potential for danger very seriously.

If you're curious:

My ever expanding list of kinks includes: CnC/Ravishment, throat fucking, forced bi, face slapping, spanking, forced orgasms, multiple orgasms, anal training, collars, mental conditioning, bruises, choking, takedown play, rope/ribbon bondage, free use, pet training, and (my personal favorite) breeding/creampies.

I'll leave you with a few questions:

What do you want the most in a potential relationship? (Play partners, short term, long term, etc)

What kind of dominance best fits your flavor of submission? (Domineering, doting, daddy, etc.)

What are your hard/soft limits?

What is it about your role that you enjoy the most, and how can I facilitate scenarios that satisfy both of our wants and needs?