Hello there! I'm a 24 year old sub-leaning switch looking to find either a local or online Dom/Domme/Switch/Sun to develop a relationship with. I am poly and partnered, just to be upfront!

The Vanilla:

I am a full time graduate student studying and interning to be an educator. I plan to teach a specialty field so this will be my third degree, so you could say I am quite knowledgeable in my field. I do enjoy watching gaming let's plays in my spare time since I don't have a lot of personal time to play many games of my own anymore. I do, however, catch a game or two of Magic at my local game store once a week and have been enjoying the teaching myself how to watercolor paint and see more lately. I enjoy alternative music from the 2000's (never out-grew that emo phase, see) and am consistently tormenting students with my obnoxious singing whenever I can haha. I am child-free, religion free, liberal minded, and 420 friendly (no nicotine).

I am pale in complexion but dress very colorfully to make up for it. I have medium length medium brown hair, bright blue eyes, and am plus sized. I think my tits and thighs are some of my best physical features if I do say so myself ;)

The Kink:

I am looking for a dynamic that is not just focused primarily within the sexual component of kink. I very much enjoy that aspect of it, but I can find myself not feeling fully engaged with my partner if it is lacking

I have a kink list that can be found (here) for easy viewing. There are some kinks that I am interested in that are not in that list which includes hypnosis, primal play, and overall I am open to trying new and exciting things! I really enjoy having tasks and rules to abide by to help me feel very submissive. Limits are found on my kink list as well. If you have any further questions, please let me know!

What I’m looking for:

First and foremost, do not message me with the intent of attempting to “lay claim” on me instantly. That will immediately result in me blocking your account. If your intent is to not attempt to get to know me as a person up front then we are just not going to be compatible.

I am in a leadership position daily, always making choices for others and making sure others are on task. I am more than happy to take on that role in someone else’s life too on s much smaller scale. Subs are a weak spot for me honestly, haha. But I also really enjoy the power exchange in giving up a little bit of freedom and taking the orders for once. I’ve noticed I play best with caregiver types and I generally take the caregiver role when domming. I have no preference in gender but I do prefer those between the ages of 20 - 40

If you are interested, please feel free to reach out to me via Reddit. Please tell me a little about yourself, more than just a “hi”, because I will not respond to those kinds of messages. Look forward to chatting with you all!