Hi!
I'm looking for a girl interested in gentle femdom. I'd love to learn about your interest and experiences with it. The idea of a woman being more powerful than a man is something that’s had a deep pull on me ever since I was a very young kid, I think even before I knew what sex was. Unfortunately for me, and honestly society at large, a man enjoying bowing down to a woman felt wrong and embarrassing as a kid. Growing up I conditioned myself to hide this part of me from everyone to avoid being humiliated for it. Later in life when I began to open up more I still found it difficult to communicate and prioritize this desire above other qualities in a potential partner since again it felt embarrassing to want, even more embarrassing to need. Anyway, as a result, I'm a relative newbie to it. I've never done any sort of kink in person, but I have read a lot of literature about it.
Some more about me, I'm a white guy, 6'4". I have brown hair and blue eyes. I keep in pretty decent shape though definitely more thin than muscular. Very friendly and emotionally mature / stable. As far as kinks, I think I'm probably more on the gentle side of the spectrum (chastity and CBT do not seem like a turn on, though I'm open to exploring). Facesitting and pegging seem super super hot. Mostly though I really want to learn what you're into and how I can provide that for you to help you feel like a goddess on earth.
My goal is to eventually find a long term relationship with a partner who enjoys this sort of dynamic.
I feel like this should go without saying, but in case it doesn’t: Like any normal person, I respect boundaries. I will not push any kinks or fetishes on you. You don't owe me anything at any point i.e. I won't be upset by you chatting with me and then ghosting in the middle of the conversation.
(Not interested in trans-females, sorry. You gals are great but it’s not my thing.)
Hoping to hear from you via DM or Reddit Chat. :)
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