So I'm a white sub looking for not a pro domme. I'm not looking fof online domination sorry just humiliating myself in my room for a video or picture isnt why I like bdsm. Im sure there are others who are but Im not so dont ask. Not someone looking for a stricg D/s relationship. I'm not looking for sessions or things of that nature. I'm looking for someone who appreciates being romantically involved and also enjoys being dominant. I am looking for someone who appreciates the idea of being in a genuine relationship and likes to be a dom but isn't so involved with the idea that your first message is. "Hey slave you want a mistress to worship". No don't say that everyone who's fake says that and even if you aren't you clearly didn't read the post. I'm a submissive man with huge submissive energy but I can't just submit to someone who sees bdsm first and the relationship and connection second.

Sorry about the rant above if you got this far then here is more about me. I stand at about 6' white and I'm a nerdy gamer who wants to be able to enjoy life play games and have my face be your personal chair/throne. I am a few pounds bigger and I'm willing to cut back and slim down as needed. I'm a bit of an oblivious and straight forward person who enjoys genuine connection like cuddling and hanging out. As for kinks I'm down dirty and could list a lot of things but I will keep it simple and list my limits. I don't do anything with blood, I'm not a cuck and wont do anything with other men, I don't do permanent marks and heavy pain that leaves marks. I love ya but I can't live a normal life with bruises all over me. I don't do anything super extreme but some things we can talk about like no needles or knives. I'm also so scared of being pegged but I'm open to trying. If I didn't list something in my limits just ask me about it.

As for people I am looking for. Be whoever I am looking for people closer to my age so I do tend to shy away from people with an age gap more then a few years. Is nothing personal I just want to have the best chance to spend my entire life with you not without. As for anything else regarding travelling I am okay to try I will have to set it up as I do work but I hope to meet someone close to me rather then super far away. And well dms are always open to talk don't be shy what's the worst that could happen. And if you read this and didn't like it or have ideas how to improve my post I am open to criticism thanks!