To expand on the basics expressed in the title: I'm seeking a woman, preferably aged 20-35, who would consider 'submission' as a core trait to her nature, whether she's fully embraced that or not. Regardless of whether this nature is evident on the exterior, she has a natural urge to be controlled by a man, an insatiable desire to surrender to someone she respects and trusts, and a primal sense of purpose in serving and pleasing someone who they've given power over to.
My primary interest is in the person, not specific kinks. I'm looking for someone intelligent and mature, capable of friendship, romance, intimacy, and intertwined through all that, a foundation of submission and dominance. Specifics of how this exchange of power will plays out is, to me, part of the enjoyment in developing a connection and dynamic.
I'm not seeking a bedroom-only dynamic, or anything shallow and half-hearted. It would be preferable to find someone willing to listen, learn and enjoy the process of developing trust and discovering how to submit to me and respond to my dominance. I enjoy the mental aspects as much as anything else.
Any location is welcome, I've found timezones to not be too much of an issue and if things went well, I'm very open to travel eventually. Having said all that, there is a preference for Australians and particularly those in Victoria. But don't let that dissuade you from saying hello.
A Little About Me: I like to read, write, research for my own enjoyment, camp, tinker with things, and work. I'm a strong introvert but have no qualms understanding and interacting socially. I like leather armchairs, heavy wooden desks and old books (in case a sort of aesthetic helps you imagine a person). I've always had a tendency to want to control, protect, and dominate, though never by brute force. I'm self employed and do contract work in academics and business consultancy.
My dominant/sexual tendencies and interests: (Feel free to ask about any of these to hear more) TPE, 24/7, domestic servitude, slave-master dynamics, humiliation, misogyny, ownership, breeding, mental domination, rough and primal domination, micro management (selecting your clothes and schedule), wholistic domination, task mastering, discipline, and causing some pain. I very much enjoy setting rules, controlling your habits and schedule (with acceptable levels of autonomy) and influencing your lifestyle in small ways that suit and please me.
Hopefully none of that dissuades you.
I don't bite and welcome any questions or inquiries for similar dynamics.
I look forward to hearing from you.
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