Hi,
I'm searching for a kinky, fun and drama free lady as a play partner. I am well read up on BDSM and, honestly, quite shocked to see how few posts talk about aftercare and healthy dynamics. I see the dominant role as a responsibility to engage with a sub, and understand what she craves through submission. To safely explore together different kinds of play we're both into, rather than using her as my own personal kink dispenser. Even in a D/s dynamic, compromise and communication has to be the foundation.
I'm 35, athletic and very health conscious, intelligent and can hold a conversation. I like hiking, skiing and travelling. I'm based in Manchester (UK) but can travel within reason. I'm well read but tend to be more interested in science & politics rather than arts. I like watching comedy shows or pulpy sci-fi on netflix. The low budget ones are almost always "so bad it's good".
Kinks-wise I'm not really into serious pain, but prefer to show dominance through presence, physicality and demeanour. I'd like to explore discipline, reward and punishment, orgasm control and edging.
Looking through my post history, you'll see I have a partner. She is open-minded, taking a break from kink, and fully aware of this post.
If this resonates, send me a message.
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