About me: I’m a 23 y/o transman and consider myself submissive. I have little to no experience, both online and IRL. If anything, I mostly did stuff online. So I am basically still at the beginning of my journey into the dom/sub world. I have knowledge about it, I just don’t have the experience to go with it. I do know what I want and what I don’t, though. I have boundaries and I’ll make sure to communicate those properly. I can be very shy and bashful at times, nervous even. So be prepared for that. I do have my open and confident moments, though. Mostly when I’m in the right mood. I do give lots of feedback and reactions to things as well. I’m not comfortable with pictures, videos or voice chatting. At least I haven’t been so far, perhaps that can change over time and with the build of trust. You can find more information about me in my pinned post on my profile, but I will make sure to include important information here.

Who I’m looking for: I’m looking for a gentle, kind and caring person that will take care of me in a sense. I’m not looking for a total caretaker or a TPE situation. Please be a patient and understanding person. There are a few annoying factors for us to work around, but since this is meant as a more casual thing, we might be able to make it work. I’m a gay male, so I will be able to connect better with other guys, but I am not against the idea of a NB or female dom. 

What I’m looking for: I’m looking for a gentle guide that will teach me, explore with me, help me gain experience, and sort of train me to reach certain goals. Those goals are things we can come up with together, I’m open for suggestions. I do have some already and they mostly focus on the use of toys and training my body for pleasure. I’m looking for tasks, joi, instructions etc. I am also fond of praise, edging, light authority and hole training. I like to fantasize about other things as well, but we can talk about that later.

What I’m NOT looking for: Aggressive, assertive dominance. I’m not looking for someone to push my limits. I don’t want to rush things. I’m also not looking for someone to take control of my personal life. Nothing that’s really 24/7. Please be able to hold a conversation properly, I don’t want to be the sole initiator and I don’t want to force replies and ideas out of you. I don’t like to be degraded, urged, rushed or forced. I don’t like pain, anal, blood, bathroom stuff, ddlb/mdlb or anything that can be considered dangerous. I want to keep everything safe, sane and consensual.

Other things that could be relevant: - my schedule can get quite busy - I have a roommate  - I prioritize my private life and health - I will give you my schedule, though, so you know what’s up 

As stated earlier, you can find more information on my profile.  When contacting me please include your age and gender. Feel free to tell me about yourself, what kind of experience you have, what got you interested, what you’re into etc. You don’t have to, but I’ll be more likely to respond. You can also include as many questions for me as you’d like! I would like to talk and get to know you first before we start anything sexual, just so we get a feeling for each other and see if this arrangement could work. Both of us can pull out at any time if we feel like it doesn’t fit. 

I’m looking forward to receiving your message and getting to know you!