Might be wishful thinking but looking for the perfect situation. I want this bad but not bad enough to settle if that makes sense… I am reserving this opportunity for the right man.

I am 23f, 5’7 and 120 lbs, fair skinned with brown hair. People regularly ask me if I’m a model or an actress as I am quite conventionally attractive (hopefully that doesn’t sound arrogant).

Who I am looking for: someone over 23 but under 33, HANDSOME, fit, and charming with a bit of money (I don’t want or need money from you whatsoever but I only want to give this to someone with I can take pride in). I imagine people in my normal life would be extremely surprised to find me on this subreddit and I want the same for you. I’m looking for the uncannily smart and charming type. I want someone that I perceive as superior to me and would naturally respect and idolize in real life. I want my submission to be really genuine and for the idea of me to be a perfect puzzle piece for you too. I want there to be a level of formality and class to what we do. If you are all of these things, I will give you the world.

I am extremely kinky and love my own reluctant obedience. I hate being in pain like everyone else but I LOVE being in pain to make someone I idolize happy. I want you to be excited by the look on my face when you make me humiliate myself by humping a piece of furniture in front of you … and set on fire by hearing me whimper when you pull on my nipples and flick my clit. I want you to thrive on watching me squirm in discomfort because you haven’t given me permission to urinate for hours while forcing me to drink glasses of water. I want you to push the boundaries with me to see how far I will take it for you.

Other: I’d like to start off without penetration, I do not sleep around and need there to be a level of trust and respect between us because penetrative sex is really important and meaningful to me. If this works out the way I hope it does I imagine we will reach that point decently soon.

Semi-public is on the table, another reason why we should look like the type of two people that would be expected to be seen together. I’m open to trying new things but have some harder limits - dm me if this all resonates with you and we can talk about it more.