Having a special connection with someone and knowing that place is only for the two of us is one of the best feelings we can have as humans. When two people take the time to build on that connection, let it grow and evolve, they experience the real magic of intimacy.

That bond is only made stronger when the trust and commitment of domination and submission is brought into the relationship.

I'm 38, 6'3" around 185lbs. I'm single, no kids and newish to the Boise area. I work in the digital creative world. I love the outdoors and enjoy camping, backpacking and skiing as much as a night in with wine, a fire and a good TV show, movie or music. Though I don't have any musical talent, music is a big part of who I am and I love discussing and sharing music with people. I love all types but underground hip hop means the most to me, so major bonus points if you have Mos Def, MF DOOM, Atmosphere or the like on regular rotation. FKJ, Tom Misch, Jungle, Khalid and The Weeknd are also favorites and I would love to hear yours. I enjoy learning new skills and creative outlets though school style learning has never really worked well for me. Everything I do professionally and creatively I taught myself at my own pace and learned from others in the field.

I'm looking to connect with a submissive who is independent and responsible in their work and daily lives, but who is calmed and comforted when giving up control, being told what to do and being taken care of. Most importantly I'm looking for someone who takes this seriously and is willing to put in the effort to communicate regularly and develop a fun, kinky dynamic.

I'd consider myself a kind Dom who prefers to guide and control you rather than torment and punish you. However, one of my biggest turn ons is hearing what your kinks are and providing them to you. So if you like pain and punishment, I'm into what you need and will gladly provide that.

Being a creative professional means I am very aesthetically driven, so outfit and appearance control are personal favorites. I'm also very detail oriented and know what I like. Dressing you how i want and taking you out is a big turn on, so those with an outfit control or objectification fetish should feel especially welcome.

As for a more specific list of kinks, I'm into orgasm control/denial, sexual and non-sexual tasks, bondage, choking, watersports, playful name calling, mild humiliation, edging, wearing toys out, asking permission for regular activities, protocols and behavioral guidelines. I'm open to anything from a few small tasks and rules to TPE and complete control of your daily activities. And I'm very interested in and open minded to your kinks, so if I didn't list something, tell me all about it. My only hard limits I can think of are blood, knives, scat and diapers/exteme age regression.

I would prefer to exchange SFW photos at some point after we've talked a bit, feel comfortable and feel like we click. Ultimately mutual attraction plays a role in any relationship. I'm generally looking for someone in the greater Boise area, but certainly not married to Boise and if you're within a reasonable distance, so reach out.

I know this was long but if you've read this far, if you're serious about finding intimacy within a kinky D/s dynamic and taking the time to develop this type of bond, if you're willing to commit to regular, engaging communication, if you take comfort in giving up control and take pride in your submission, send me a message or chat and tell me about yourself and what you are looking for. I'm looking forward to hearing from you.