I’m a broken slut. I want you to use me, abuse me, control me, and degrade me. I want you to defile me. Turn me into your inferior plaything. I want to surrender to you, so completely that I’ll do anything for you. I feel most alive when I’m reduced to a wet, quivering mess whose sole purpose is to please a man.

You should know, though, that my darker desires are not a byproduct of my naivety. I’ve been in this lifestyle for longer than I’d care to admit. I’m an experienced submissive with a masochistic streak. My submission is earned. Kink is an integral part of who I am, but it is not all that I am.

My friends and family know me as a pretty, smart, left-leaning feminist. I am educated, accomplished, and put together. Good head on my shoulders, bright, confident. I pride myself on my empathy. Physically, I have long dark hair and brown eyes. I’m 5’2” and petite. People often tell me I’m cute. I have a preference for wearing dresses, but only because I hate wearing pants (especially pants without pockets).

I speak three languages fluently (four if you count sarcasm). My bachelors is in neuroscience. I’m looking to apply for an advanced degree in the medical field. I love reading, learning, sports (mainly football and soccer), and finding new shows on Netflix to binge. I work out, but only because I have an awful sweet tooth (I hate working out). In short, I’ve got a lot going for me.

Then again, I have those darker kinks. The kinks that the people in my life would never expect me to be into. Misogyny, CNC, freeuse, degradation, objectification, rules, watersports, anal, bondage, choking, TPE, edging, and orgasm denial...just to name a few. If my friends and family knew about even half of my kinks, it’d be easy for them to think I was being abused. But I’m honest with myself. I do want abuse. I want to experience love and submission through abuse. I lead a double life, and that’s important to me. Perhaps that’s why the dissonance turns me on so much.

I want you to know that I treat this kind of thing as I would any other relationship. I expect you to take kink just as seriously as I do. But I also expect you to be a whole well-rounded person outside of kink. We should be able to talk regularly and get to know each other as people.

I find that my romantic interests are very much intertwined with my sexual interests. I’m looking for a long-term dominant with whom I can practice submission. But I’d love it if you not only became my dominant, but also my boyfriend, best friend, and my confidant. I want a friendship, first and foremost. I want to talk about the mundane with you. I want to trust you to catch me when I fall.

Ideally, I want a 24/7 dynamic with you. Your kinks should be at least somewhat aligned with my own. You should value a submissive as a companion, and more importantly, a human, that isn’t just there for your sexual urges and desires.

To be more specific, I am looking for someone who fits the following criteria (bonus points if you have an accent):

- Between 24-34 years old – I have a thing for older men but I find it harder to relate to those who are significantly older than me.

- Monogamous – Do not contact me if you have a partner/spouse/submissive/any other type of significant other in the picture. This is non-negotiable.

- Located in the US – Timezones can be hard. I want to eventually meet up with you. I am in EST.

- Honest and intelligent – Please be able to hold a conversation.

What I am not looking for:

- A quick session

- A polyamorous relationship

- To send nudes during our first few conversations

- Someone who refers to themselves as a “dominate”

- Someone who isn’t serious

- Sum1 who taips lyk dis

I hope I’ve made it clear that this is something I’m serious about. I’m in this for the long haul, and you should be, too. If you’re still interested, please direct message me and let me know what resonated with you. Please do not chat me, as those are much harder for me to manage.

Thank you for reading!