Hmmm…. My ideal dynamic. Well, I have given a lot of thought to that over the years and it’s interesting because I never come up with a solid answer. My ideal dynamic starts out with a set of bare bones. Those bare bones being: mutual trust, respect, care for each other, need and want for the dynamic and to please each other (SFW and nsfw) in the dynamic. I have said this many times in the past and I’ll say it again. I won’t get into anything you aren’t 110% enthusiastic to try. Now the rest of my ideas for the “perfect” dynamic change, quite often on my feelings of being dominant. Oh I’m also a kinky fuck so that also makes it harder to pinpoint 😂 I’m into it all soooo I’m also VERY flexible. Aaaaanywhooo, there are times where I fantasize of having this “perfect sub” where she has her rules, tasks, protocols, everything that we have trained into each other to a T and that is what our lives are like. That perfect blend of submission, relationship and vanilla life. Where you are trained to do things a certain way, learn different hand signals that mean different things so we can even have a scene non verbally if that makes sense. You would have ways you are expected to behave in public (in normal ways, dw lol). I would pick your outfits for you etc. basically TPE. Think if James Bond were kinky. Having that lifestyle, but also in a very classy and normal way…. In public. Other times I want a very playful, bratty dynamic. Where there aren’t a lot of strict must behave rules and potocols, obviously those are nice, but when they are made to be bratted on for that fun little always fresh and new and exciting power play dynamic. Every day is something new for us and it keeps us, more so you. ALWAYS on your toes because we never know what could happen next. Then I also have the feeling where I love love LOOOOVE kind of a DDLG, very caring and nurturing and close dynamic. Not having super strict rules, just focused on us, ofc kink involved and punishments in all of these dynamic ideas. But kind of a vanilla relationship, but with a very nicely seasoned sprinkle of kink and power play in it. And literally anything in between those 3 in every way. That’s what I see is the perfect dynamic. A mix of all of those :). And all mixed up with that. Unwavering passion, closeness, trust, ROMANCE PLEASE. Desire and lust for each other. A complete ride or die. You know everything about me and I know everything about you and we would do any and everything for each other. And also a type of casualness and comfort that if we sat down to watch a movie, I would casually play with you and touch you and tease you just for fun. It doesn’t have to go anything further than that. Oh and not just one way, it goes both ways so you can do that to me as well, but having a dynamic and or relationship like that, where we are so comfortable with each other that something like that is just normal for us and we don’t think twice about it just sounds so perfect.