Hello.

So my dream girl is someone who is my best friend and my dom. I have a successful career, I work out, and have no drama in my life. I am very thoughtful and caring towards my partner. I am looking for someone who will genuinely care, sees me for who I am, and accepts me for that person. I am 5'11 160lbs. I have a personal trainer, and I am trying to get 190 lbs.

About me I am a line man, I travel all over the country. I wanna settle down in Tennessee, but I am willing to change my mind. I love Chiverirly and romance. I am the type of guy that will make us a picnic, open every door, and bring you flowers. I have adhd and it can be pretty bad at times. I make a lot of lists and tend to be a slow learner. I have alexithymia, so I almost never get mad or sad. I just got out of an emotionally abusive relationship, last may. I feel ready to start looking again

Dom stuff My philosophy on dom/sub relationship, Is that it's my job to make my dom as happy as possible. In femdom I found that tends to be almost entirely out of the bedroom. I am gonna start with a bit of a fantasy. My dream is to have a partner who owns me in every way. If she wants me to have more muscles, I go on a workout plan. I eat what she wants to eat. We go where she wants to go. I want het to have complete control over me. I have fantasies of using hypnosis to be even more committed and obedient. I don't expect her to literally make every decision. She just tells me what she wants, and I do it. The things she doesn't care about I'll make choice and do on my own.

I know her favorite foods at restaurants so I don't have to ask what she wants when I order food. I do all the chores, so the house is always clean. Never wake her up. If we are cuddling, I patiently wait for her to wake up instead of risking waking her by untangling myself to get out of bed. Giving her all my money so she can have a wardrobe she loves. That is how I practice femdom. Of course i give her massages whenever she wants, but making her life as easy and fun as possible tends to make them as satisfied and as happy as possible, that is my goal.

Any advice from doms would be appreciated.