Hello.

So my dream girl is someone who is my best friend and my dom. I have a successful career, I work out, and have no drama in my life. I am very thoughtful and caring towards my partner. I am looking for someone who will genuinely care, sees me for who I am, and accepts me for that person. I am 5'11 160lbs. I have a personal trainer, and I am trying to get 190 lbs.

About me I am a line man, I travel all over the country. I wanna settle down in Tennessee, but I am willing to change my mind. I love Chiverirly and romance. I am the type of guy that will make us a picnic, open every door, and bring you flowers. I have adhd and it can be pretty bad at times. I make a lot of lists and tend to be a slow learner. I have alexithymia, so I almost never get mad or sad. I just got out of an emotionally abusive relationship, last may. I feel ready to start looking again

Dom stuff My philosophy on dom/sub relationship, Is that it's my job to make my dom as happy as possible. In femdom I found that tends to be almost entirely out of the bedroom. I am gonna start with a bit of a fantasy. My dream is to have a partner who owns me in every way. If she wants me to have more muscles, I go on a workout plan. I eat what she wants to eat. We go where she wants to go. I want het to have complete control over me. I have fantasies of using hypnosis to be even more committed and obedient. I don't expect her to literally make every decision. She just tells me what she wants, and I do it. The things she doesn't care about I'll make choice and do on my own.

I know her favorite foods at restaurants so I don't have to ask what she wants when I order food. I do all the chores, so the house is always clean. Never wake her up. If we are cuddling, I patiently wait for her to wake up instead of risking waking her by untangling myself to get out of bed. Giving her all my money so she can have a wardrobe she loves. That is how I practice femdom. Of course i give her massages whenever she wants, but making her life as easy and fun as possible tends to make them as satisfied and as happy as possibleis the goal. . Any advice from doms would be appreciated.