When I am horny, I always get this one fantasy. I think about a woman taking over my life, be it a stranger, coworker, boss, "friend" or anyone else. She just comes into my life and starts making decisions for me, decisions that benefit her and slowly ruin my life. In my fantasy, this woman either hates me for something I did or she is just a sadistic person who enjoys the feeling of power, control and hurting others. She is confident, cruel and dominant, never takes no for an answer and for her, I exist to be a toy. I was never good at standing up for myself and I have a habit of doing whatever I can to make others around me pleased with me, often forgetting or ignoring what it does to me. So while my mental health and my overall quality of life would deteriorate under her control, I wouldn't have it in me to escape or rebel against her. I would lose all control and she would make every decision for me. What I am allowed to wear, what kind of entertainment I get, how I spend my time, how my money gets used, my sex life, decisions concerning bathroom related things (toilet, shower, cleaning and so on). She would make me do degrading and dehumanizing things just for her amusement, punish and hurt me when shes bored and gaslighting me into believing I deserve and want it.

In the past, I believe I have met a few people who somewhat fit that person of my fantasies, but I was never quite brave (or stupid) enough to tell them about my fantasies. It is easier to share that here, anonymous, though. I would very much love to find someone to chat about this, maybe you have similar fantasies or you consider yourself a Domme like I described. Maybe you even have experience ruining someones life like that, I would love to hear about that too, otherwise we can just exchange fantasies about it.