I'm a new Anglophone arrival in Montreal (will be learning French but not conversant yet). I'm looking for a D/s dynamic locally or online. My kinks include denial/chastity, small penis humiliation, degradation/humiliation, and others! Would love to chat to see which of our kinks overlap, and what new things we might explore together. I have limited experience with online play. I would love to be pushed to the edges of my comfort zone.
For online dynamics, I am happy to share pics/vids. No face at first, but that is negotiable with time and trust. Your appearance is not a deciding factor for me, and I don't need to see you (unless you are comfortable sharing). For me, the thrill is pleasing you.
For in-person dynamics, I appreciate a wide variety of gender expression, body shapes, and personal aesthetics. I do prefer hygienic partners (not into raunch/body odor kinks). Safe play (including condoms) is a must - I know that's not everyone's preference but it's not negotiable.
Physically, I am fat (~295lbs/134kg), short (5'9"/175cm), and bearded with moderate body hair. I have a very small cock (why I love SPH - please make fun of it) and prefer to give pleasure while being denied my own sexual release.
Outside of kink, I like reading nonfiction (usually science and some current events) and playing the occasional computer game. I'm nerdy.
One thing to keep in mind - I am married. It is a long-term dead bedroom situation, but I need to be discreet while playing. I know not everyone is comfortable with that, so I want to be up front about it. This does limit my time availability and the kinds of tasks/scenes I can do. It also means I cannot host.
Thanks for reading - hope to hear from you!
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