Hello everyone! I'm a soft Daddy living in NEOH. What do I mean by soft Daddy? I lean much more into the nurturing aspects of the dynamic, and don't stick as much to rigid schedules and punishments. That doesn't mean there isn't any discipline at all, just that it's not the first option.

I'm 39, average height, fat, shaved head, salt and pepper goatee. I'd totally be happy to trade pics, should anyone be interested. I have a black cat named Ares that is the bestest boy ever, and if you have a cat, I guarantee they love me already. I don't smoke or drink and don't care if you do, as long as it's not an all day, everyday thing.

As far as who I'm looking for, I'm pretty open. Age doesn't matter, as long as you are at least 18. Don't care about race or body type. I'm good with any and all pronouns, but I'm not attracted to a masculine appearance. I love anime (although I'm so far behind on EVERYTHING) and horror movies, and while it would be awesome if my partner did too, it's by no means a requirement.

I am poly, but I'm not necessarily looking for a poly relationship. It's more that I believe people should find as many ways as possible to be happy, and if that includes multiple partners, so be it. I'm open to talking to anyone who may already be in an ENM dynamic.

If any of my post strikes a cord with you, please feel free to communicate however you're comfortable with. I can be found on most chat apps as yokoandy, or yokoandy#5199 on discord. I would also just love to meet some new people to chat with. I'd love to find a DnD group, a cuddle buddy, people up late at night to chat to while I'm working, pretty much anything. If you read this whole thing and nothing tickles your fancy, please accept my best wishes on finding your person in the wonderful sea of Reddit.