𝙎𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙠𝙮-𝙣𝙤𝙩𝙚; I will NOT, respond to low effort " Hi " or " Hello "s, I put alot of all into my post, trying to be clear and concise. I'd prefer you do the same; absolutely flood my inbox with info! ) D: Long post incoming, buckle up and enjoy! 🌸

Hello, my name is Aspen! I'm 19, and I'm looking for a LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP/DYNAMIC! I post every now and again, and decided to try searching here for my " Big ", the sully to my boo , the Ralph to my Penelope, (Disney reference!)

( 𝙏𝙞𝙣𝙮 𝙎𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙠𝙮-𝙣𝙤𝙩𝙚; There is photos of me on my profile, and I will send selfies when I'm ready! Though I'm fine with video calls to get to know eachother. ) 🍄

Now, I do have some must-haves if you are to DM me! • ꒰ I'm okay with just about anyone (21 ) as long as you don't look your age/look good for your age. ・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・ • ꒰Please have experience or willing to learn about neurodivergent people! |・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・ • ꒰ Please be 420, piercing/tattoos, and mental health friendly (you do not have to participate in 420, just be friendly/non-judgemental about me doing it!) |・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・ • ꒰Please be experienced through research/knowledge, and practical experience with kink/BDSM in general. |・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・・

That concludes my must-haves!

Next up on this adventure is about me!

Heyo! My name is Aspen, as we know. And I'm an autistic sub! I'm a very, energetic, sweet, and bubbly person! Often times then not, I find it difficult to be serious; though I can be when asked of me or needed. I'm also ways bouncing of the walls, and I'm a very silly and energetic/hyperactive little person due to my natural personality and help with my ADHD! Even when I'm not up to it, I have a pep in my step and a smile on my face as often as possible. I'm full of dark jokes and will always try to cheer you up with my corny ones. I'm very, very clingy; as in, let me be apart of your skin and hold on to you foreverrr!

Heres a bit about what I do, my hobbies and special interests!

I adore baking/cooking, history/periodic; books, films, etc etc. Theatre Arts, arts n crafts, sewing, wood working, and so so much more! I absolutely love bugs and some insects, and my favorite are bagworm moth caterpillars, death head hawk moth, and lace bugs! I can/and most likely will go on and on about how much I appreciate them and why we should protect them at all cost! I've been studying bugs since I was about 6, and they are my comfort special interests. A new thing I've been investing my time in, is writing lore for a new stuffed animal of mine! And I'd absolutely love to tell you all about my sweet boy! (Stuffed Animal) If you're interested in doing so!

Physically, I'm 4'11, 95 pounds, mixed (Black and Japanese), little doll. With big sparkly brown eyes, a slim, baby face. Slender neck, small shoulders, sharp collar bones, a small chest, slim frame, small tummy, somewhat thick thighs, and a nice butt! I have a more alternative style of fashion; Gothic, punk, indie, fairy core, and much more! My style and wardrobe consists of pastel baby stuff, light and earthy ethereal, and more dark and spooky things aswell, it definitely differs. But for the most part, definitely not "normal", or average for where I live.

More nerdy facts about me are, I'm heavily into dnd (it's a hyperfixation), getting into Star Wars and, I plan on doing a marvel marathon soon! I'm currently having a Harry Potter marathon; come join me? I'm heavily into psychology and true crime. I adore learning about what makes the brain honk and twist in ways and what not! I adorreeeeee history, and have a bunch of history facts logged into the back in my brain; maybe we can go on endless conversations about some we've been hooked on recently? :0 I adore periodic films and books, anything under the sun that is periodic is a yes (within reason). Recently Regency era has been on the mind and Victorian era aswell! They are my flipping jam (despite a good portion), and I adore them so much; What's an era you enjoy or idolize?

Now, what am I looking for you may be asking? Read along!

I'm looking for a long-term dynamic, that can not only be sexual, but romantic! I'm looking for an caring, compassionate and nurturing person who isn't just looking for a quick fix/fling. I am looking to get to know eachother over a phone call aswell, I feel like we can connect better!

( 𝙏𝙞𝙣𝙮 𝙎𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙠𝙮-𝙣𝙤𝙩𝙚; If you live near by, or even in the same city, I'd absolutely adore to go on a cute little date (sfw), to further get to know each-other. I'm also open to relocation if/when I'm comfortable, and if/when that comes up in the future!) 🎀

I have 7 years of experience in general BDSM and more, out of trauma unfortunately, however I am on the personal adventure of healing, and in 2 weeks, I will be 2 years clean of self harm! Back on track however, I would prefer someone with atleast some experience or even more than me. I'm looking for to have a found at dynamic of cg/l, with other things added into the recipe (Sub/Dom, Pet/Owner, etc etc.), structure is really, really important to me and I'd truly love to have rules, punishment and reward system, a schedule perhaps, and just general stability provided and given. I should say now, I have dependent personality disorder and because of this, when I say I'm clingy? I very much men it! And if you can not reciprocate, please do not waste any of either of us' time, and scroll. I like effort and consistency in a partner, and especially people who know and can accurately identify what they want are looking for; I don't wanna be an experiment! I strongly prefer descriptive partners; as in, I really enjoy having partners who are clear, concise with their words, attentive to detail and writes paragraphs. My love language is letters from the heart, if you can't match that, please scroll!

( 𝙏𝙞𝙣𝙮 𝙎𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙠𝙮-𝙣𝙤𝙩𝙚; Kink/BDSM is a life style for me, please scroll if you're not looking for something of the sort! )

Onto what I'm NOT looking for, do not pm/dm, chat or message me, if you; are looking for a fling, fwb or nsa. This being said, I also am not looking for "discreet" people, starting affairs, or anything illegal. I AM OKAY, with single people, couples, people of ANYY gender! In a relationship, I'd say I admire someone who isn't serious all the time, and someone who is confident in who they are and who they're with; don't be ashamed to be seen with me, or distant in public. Hold my hand, look at me like I'm the prettiest thing in the room. Be proud of me, just as I am you. Be confident in what you can/have to offer. Someone who can communicate is a major plus, I'm horrible at it, but have been getting exceedingly better! If you can't handle a hyperactive pretty gremlin, who is clingy and affectionate? Don't waste your time with me, thanks! <3

I'm a very sweet, caring, loving, and otherwise; affectionate person. I will try my best to accommodate you (within reason), and support you! I'd prefer someone who isn't busy day in-and-day out, (if you have plans stacked from the moment you wake up to the moment you go to bed, we won't work.). But I definitely can give you space when you need it and respect you when you go to work, I'm a hopeless romantic when I attack to you and I write love letters from the heart to remind you how much I love and appreciate you, and much more. I'm a huge experimentalist, and don't mind much but I do have my limits; primarily I don't have anything I'm wanting to try as of late, nor am I looking in particular to try something new. A major plus about me is, I have a very long and in-deph kink list (and more importantly, a limit list.) I also prefer if you weren't heavily religious, traditional, or political (preachy types.), or anti-lgbtq . As long as you aren't an asshole and put efforts in, I will be willing to talk to you!

YOU SHOULD BE/ARE; I'd personally prefer if you were chubby, for built-in cuddle machine, though it's not an absolute must. Over 21, and also neurodivergent. A woman OR bearded, tattooed, or have piercings. Goofy/silly sometimes, can hold a conversation/good conversationalist and have time for me/willing to make time for me as I am for you. And of course match with what I'm looking for and what I want. Similar taste and interests.

To wrap this up, to start of the conversation, send me a DETAILED introduction ( no, bare minimum doesn't count. >:c ), of yourself, and in it, please answer one of the follow questions; What is your favorite bug or insect, your favorite musical (no Disney doesn't count, to make it extra hard), not a fan of either? How was your day/night yesterday? I'd love to call and get to know you.

Even if you're not interested, thanks for reading and have a nice day!! 🌈🐸