Fresh out of a break-up – a little over a month ago – I wonder if it’s truly is wise to look for someone else, or if I’m even ready for it. I do want to enjoy life and share it with someone. Now, let’s keep an open mind. This could be a temporary respite. A brief encounter, perhaps. Instantaneous, yet not permanent, gratification.

It could turn into something else. I live in a place some consider heaven on Earth, but this tropical paradise I call home is hardly close to where you live. Travel is a possibility, however. To note, I’m heading to the US East Coast a month from now and may head elsewhere afterwards, with Europe and Asia definite possibilities.

Whether our exchanges take place in virtual realms – at least initially – or not, I am looking for a true connection. A lasting one? Perhaps. Indubitably a significant one, though. Depending on the ties that develop (literally, in some cases), relocation is a possibility both of us may want to consider. Such is the kind of connection we may find.

Me

I love arts and culture; enjoy reading and writing; and like to discuss films and literature. I have strong opinions but an open mind, enjoy talking about existential subjects but can be light-hearted as well. To me a healthy relationship is built on trust and balance; It's nice to be with someone you can be serious and have fun with at the same time.

A perfectionist, I am strict and demanding. I can be quite the disciplinarian and work best with a girl who knows who she is and what she wants or with someone at least looking to develop a better structure in her life. Your words will be of utmost importance, and I will hold you to what you say. I do reward good behavior, however.

I’d like to listen and get to know you. I intend to play an active role in supporting and guiding you to become both the best version of yourself and the kind of woman I want by my side. Beyond BDSM, the softer side of things strongly appeals to me. I would love to build a traditional, loving, highly sexual, and D/s-based relationship with you.

you

I'm looking for a kind, intelligent, and beautiful girl who cares about the world and those who live in it. Someone who enjoys taking care of her body but favors even more cultivating her mind and soul. All the better if she likes reading novels and short stories, watching arthouse films, and having discussions about the meaning of life.

Heart and humanity matter most, but physical appearance is also important to me. I tend to favor traditional beauty standards, but don’t have a specific ‘type’, but I am attracted to women who are height-weight proportionate, perhaps with lovely curves, but ideally petite, on the slimmer and fitter side of things.

While I hope for maturity and self-reflection, that does not always come with age. Youthful exuberance can be most appealing, too. I care more for your essence and look for a cultured, confident, smart, physically active, sensitive, empathetic, beautiful, sexy, warm, cheerful and fulfilled girl. For all I know, she could be barely 18 or twice as old.

Us

I ask for integrity, honesty, kindness, sincerity, loyalty, faithfulness, and obedience. To these core values I add respect and empathy; those two are a must before, during, and even after anything that may develop between us. Let’s become friends, lovers, and true partners who care deeply for and enjoy each other's company immensely.

Kink-wise, I favor discipline, physically demanding tasks and control, love public humiliation, indulge in light bondage, enjoy dishing out a good spanking now and then, like to be playful and adventurous and vary things, going from primal to sensuous, raw and aggressive to soft and gentle. I intend to push you beyond what you have known.

Hopefully we share an appreciation for arts and culture. I like to indulge in the finer things of life, while caring more about experiences than status, luxury, and possessions. Love to travel. Shall we plan our first trip together? Perhaps we may not even meet for even a cup of coffee, but the world is endless and so are the possibilities it offers.

be Mine

Find your bliss in my happiness, devote yourself to me, and let's find out if we are meant to be and we can create our own personal Garden of Eden together. Even from afar – if only at first – I know how to be creative and physical barriers should pose no obstacle to the many thrills we can enjoy together.

Should you feel my words speak to you and you recognize yourself and what you want in my descriptions, then kindly take that step forward. Tell me about yourself and your everyday life. Let's get to know each other as if we had met at a party, in a bookstore or a coffeehouse. No matter the ‘how’, let’s make magic together.

A visual type, pictures and/or video will be expected soon enough. I would also require that you are willing to share and accept me being involved with other women while you devote yourself solely to me. Though these circumstances may prove atypical, I trust you'd still find our relationship quite rewarding and conducive to your happiness.

I want you to put your entire existence in my hands.

I do not mind using regular orange envelopes or Reddit’s chat function, although if we hit it off, we are likely to head to Discord or Telegram fairly soon. Let's share a cup of chocolate or a glass of wine from afar.Pour your heart out or just send me the first few lines this message inspires, add a photo or two, and let’s write the first notes of your – our – new life.

Shall we make beautiful music together?