I’ve posted once. I’ve posted a thousand times. But I’ve yet to find what I seek. Serious inquires only.

Seeking an online connection where the pressure builds slowly, tantalizingly, organically. You should be yourself. No acting necessary, no self-doubts required. The right connection will simply be the right connection. I’ll know it. You’ll know it. There will be a definite “click” if it’s going to work.

I’d love to meet a wise, mature man who knows what he wants and what he likes. A man who appreciates a bit of a challenge and is strategic in his problem solving skills. Someone determined and self-aware. Someone who wants to work and weasel. Someone who becomes more curious at the first sign of aversion. Someone who seeks to change and bend.

It’s important I find this man because I believe he holds something very important to me. I think he can unlock a piece of me that I can’t do by myself. I’ve tried and I’ve not been successful. But I’ve seen glimpses of it occasionally when just the right sort of masculine energy becomes aligned with mine.

There’s a lot I want to know and discover. And I don’t have the details of that all straightened out, so please don’t ask. Step 1 is finding the right connection with the right person.

Seeking engaging, intelligent, fun conversation. I enjoy wittiness and out of the box topics. The more effort and energy you supply, the more effort and energy I give. The more you give, the more I give back.

I feel like with the right person the dynamic is going to build itself authentically with our individual wants and needs in mind. The only expectation I have is that I enjoy speaking to you and I find you inspiring.

Men under 30, need not apply. Please check out my other posts for more info/vibes.

Kinks: sapiosexuality, orgasm control and denial, TPE, free use, light mostly verbal degradation/humiliation, psychological bdsm, teasing, misogyny, mind games, 1950s, power dynamics

Limits: blood, scat, animals, watersports, heavy abuse, feet