I need a consistent caregiver that can handle someone that can be very sad but is mostly very happy at the same time, kind of a rollercoaster with mostly ups. The sadness kind of lurks so I'll be understanding if you're not always available when it hits. However, I need at least a little contact every day. When I'm sad or sick I get extra clingy and needy, so I'd prefer someone that can handle that. I've never tried being a little before but I've noticed a lot of posts associating littles with being clingy so I'd like to explore that with someone. I do love stuffies and bright clothes, so I'm already a "little" prepped for this, right?

I'm not new to kink, but if this works it would be my first official dynamic. This is something I've wanted for a long time and had been working towards before the panorama put so much on hold. I decided in the fall I wasn't putting my life on hold anymore and this is next on my list of things I've been waiting on.

I'm looking for online only but may eventually want to meet irl with the right person. It doesn't matter how far away you are, I enjoy traveling. I currently live in the US but hope to move to Europe within 5-10 years. I have taken Arabic, French, German, Spanish and Italian. Just started Irish, because I've been bored. I'm not fluent in anything but love to practice when I can. I'm also nerdy, artistic and quite the cook!

I'd prefer to get to know you before we discuss kinks, but my hard limits are scat, watersports, animals, minors, blood and knife play, humiliation, degradation, blackmail, feeding, age regression, self harm and permanent marks.

I'm non-monogamous but if you aren't, that's not a deal breaker. When I move to Europe I'm probably going to stop being non-monogamous and will be looking for someone to settle down and live the lifestyle with. My current partner will not be a part of our dynamic and I probably won't talk to you about them aside from telling you when I'm with them. (A couple nights during the week and some time on the weekend) If you're non-monogamous as well I'd like to know that your partner(s) exist for ethical reasons but I don't need to know anything else unless you want me to.

I'd prefer a Dom/me between 27 and 50. I'd also prefer someone active, I enjoy hiking, kayaking, and working out. I am a masochist but would prefer a soft dom/me outside of scenes. I'm always looking for friends too, so even if you're a sub or not a good fit I might enjoy hearing from you!