---Who am I?

Hey, my name’s Don, but you can switch the N for an M anytime. I am a second year college student located in the Fenway area. I am studying for my masters degree in international business management and fully intend to grow a very successful life and hope to take someone along this wonderful journey with me. This may sound arrogant or snobby or insert anything else you might want to say. I know my value as a person, as a dom and as a partner. I know what I can offer you and that if we are open and honest and feel safe with each other. If we become close and connected. You will never find anything like it. I’m looking for someone who recognizes that in themselves and bring value to us as a whole.

---General info about me

I am 6’4” and weigh roughly 240 pounds. I probably have ADHD which leads me into basically any kind of hobby. I’m not even kidding. Like you name it and I’ve either done it or want to. Hiking? Skiing? Sailing? Kayaking? Mountain biking? Endurance riding? Weight lifting? Paint balling? Leather working? Home remodels? Running multiple businesses? Yep, check check and check. All of the above lol. It gets even more random the more I think about it…. There is most of just about everything on my list which is best for you because I’m happy no matter what we are doing as long as I’m with you. I also LOVE to learn and get to know your hobbies and interests so I can enjoy them with you. There is nothing like watching someone’s face light up with such joy and excitement, watching the complete happiness wash over their face as they do whatever it is that they love!

---A little history of me

I grew up in south Florida and have had a very…. Practice life if you could say that. I grew up very close and very tight with family, helping them with whatever I could. This expanded as I got older and my responsibilities picked up. Although I didn’t exactly have the most amount of time to have a “typical” childhood, I did grow to become very used to responsibilities and maturity. Although I am not older, I have been described by everyone as “older at heart” or something like that. An old soul if you will? Needless to say, I don’t really resemble other men around my age. I am very level headed, trauma friendly, and don’t have a history of mental health issues or problems. I am incredibly calm under pressure and I do NOT play any mind games (the bad kind) with whoever I’m with. I don’t lie, I don’t cheat, I don’t ghost people and I sure as hell won’t treat them with disrespect or rudeness.

---What is most important to me?

Communication and honesty. While many many things are just as important to me, I think it is most important to clarify here that honesty and communication is probably most important (aside from the obvious of safe words and consent). To be able to have a healthy dynamic of any kind. Be that bedroom only, DDLG or Master/Slave dynamics, communication and honesty with each other about EVERYTHING is key. Mutual respect and no kink shaming of course is a must as well. Communication about what is or isn’t working. Honesty revolving around how each person is feeling and any other thing that may be going on is paramount to a HEALTHY relationship or dynamic.

---Other must haves for me

Consent. I will NOT partake in any kinky play, dynamic or relationship that has not been thoroughly talked about beforehand. SSC (safe, sane and consensual) is an absolute must. Safe words as well are non negotiable for me. Aftercare is a necessity both for me and for you. Whatever that aftercare may look like: Cuddling, silence, sleep, holding each other, bathing/cleaning up one another. Whatever it is, I don’t care. Aftercare is a need and whatever your needs for aftercare are, I will happily Give whatever is needed.

---My experience/Training

Although my actual playtime experience is rather limited, my experience with training and power dynamics however is not. I have been learning/educated of kink for a very long time and practicing any of the “dominant” positions (Daddy Dom, Dom, Máster, brat tamer, etc.) for many years now. Although I may be looking for something longer term, I am always open to and would love to help others begin in their exploration of kink in whatever way they want. I don’t mind if someone has 0 experience or even 0 knowledge about kink. I am very patient and very thorough with whatever it is I teach. I would love to help train whoever wants it or even answer any questions someone has.

---What am I looking for? What is my dream dynamic?

My dream dynamic…. I have spent a long time figuring out what exactly I want for my dream dynamic…. My dream dynamic is one which we can blend our kinky lives and our vanilla lives together seamlessly. Now this is also the most delicate, complex and rewarding balance power play I have ever experienced. We will have our perfectly normal vanilla lives to the rest of the world and we can even bring the dynamic into that (ONLY in between us) over time if we want. But between you and me, we have an entirely different world that we exist in as we make it the reality of our dreams. I won’t get into specific kinks in this section, but I do love to practice sexual/non sexual kinks often so I would ideally want someone who has a higher sex drive. That is not a must, but it helps as I also have a higher sex drive. Our dynamic would be built upon trust and respect for each other. I dream of having certain rules and protocols that we both get used to and adapt to our daily routine. Both for your submission and my domination of you. When it comes to any serious life matter or any other event that either one of us wants us to talk about outside of power play, we WILL ALWAYS have the RIGHT to do so no matter what.

---Who am I looking for?

Well, that is also very flexible. I am looking for a woman preferably no older than 26 years old. I want to grow and experience life with you. If we fall in love and get into a relationship. My love style is unlike anything you will have ever experienced. I love with every bit of me and you will see that. I will dedicate to myself and put in 1000% effort into us and I hope you do the same. I am straight and would prefer someone who is straight as well. I am open to bi women. I have no issue with anyone of any other sexual identity and I believe everyone should identify/be whatever it is that makes them happy. To everyone who is of my same gender or opposite sexual orientation, I thank you greatly for the interest and I would be delighted to be your friend however we can’t be more.

---KINKS

Anal (probably my biggest kink), Ownership, free use, CNC, TPE, orgasm control, sleep play, denial, fisting, watersports, bondage, deepthroat, breeding, punishment, breath play, slapping, predicament bondage, overall really rough sex, spitting, praise, worship, Cockwarming, i LOVE temperature play. I have a big oral kink, corruption, misogyny, DDLG, collaring, praise, training, objectification, 1950’s style, impact play, objectification, pain, sexual pain, protective sadism. And many many more. For those of you who looove bondage like me I do have some restraints :)