I am writing this post for my girl in London, to whom I am the dominant partner. She needs regular attention, though that doesn't necessarily mean frequent with any particular person, from dominant people with experience who know how to put a girl through her paces hard. Whether you are a couple, single woman or man, or any other combination including groups matters less than how much we align.

While there are a lot of things we are looking for they don't all hold the same weight so I'll break them down into two categories. Required and Bonus.

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Required:

Hosting - You must host.

Flexibility - Unfortunately her schedule is fairly rigid so yours will have to be able to work around that. She has availability weeknights from roughly 6pm to 9pm usually 3 nights per week.

NorthWest London - The closer you are to this general geographical area the more time you'll have to play with her. You know what I mean. If you're too far it's not really worth considering given her schedule outlined above.

Discretion - There are lots of reasons people might not want their names/faces blasted all over for everyone to see or their lives pried into. We're looking for someone who understands and can respect that she's there to play and be played with, not reveal her life story.

Experience & Creativity - Please be able to demonstrate in some way that you know what you're doing. She will be a very fun toy for someone who knows their way around the BDSM world. Sex is awesome enough, but she can be used for so much more and I need someone who has the ability to use her in a variety of ways and who has the experience to make it happen safely while pushing her hard.

Photography/Videography - Wait what? Yeah, so discretion is absolutely important but this is also about kink and that thrill. One of the things I'm looking for most is for someone who is willing to take photos/videos of her use and send it to me. I'm not talking 100% of a given session and not every time, but I have criteria which can be discussed if we get that far. It's entirely up to the partner how much they are shown.

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Optional:

Equipment - The more toys, tools, and equipment you have the better to use her with. Full dungeon is the unicorn.

Credentials - If you have some way of showing/proving experience in some way you go to the front of the line. For example if you've got videos up somewhere and during private talks I can verify it's you that will absolutely get you quite a few points.

Fitness & Attraction - Better is better but okay isn't bad. Obviously attraction is in the eye of the beholder and at the end of the day she's there to be used and enjoyed but if she's attracted to her partners it will be even more fun for everyone involved. In terms of fitness level...just be able to keep up with her through the time you have available. I want her used hard in the time she has free.

Age - Linked to experience and attraction, ideally I'm looking for 30's to 40's but the cutoffs are closer to mid 20's and mid 50's. There are always exceptions.

Patience - We all have lives and sometimes those lives are busy lives.

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What do you get?

A submissive toy - She's a very eager to please, learn, and try new things.

An attractive toy - I might be biased given that she fits what I like, but I don't think anyone will be disappointed.

A regular toy - If it works for everyone, you get access to someone who has regular needs. Not talking multiple times a week, but not talking only once a month either.

Copies of media - I recognize this involves a lot of trust that the originals will be deleted in the first place after being delivered, but in exchange for the work done to capture said media edited versions with anything identifying her blurred out will be given back. Optionally can blur out anyone else at the same time if desired.

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You

If you've made it through that slog, congratulations. I assume you're still interested. I'll be handling the communication until I feel like it's worth moving forward to further introductions and hopefully on to making something happen. If you don't put in any effort I'm just going to ignore. Please don't waste my time.