29M, Washington state, US

What I'm looking for: A good portion of my life revolves around kink and I want someone that truly wants that. I have vanilla interests but kink is a huge part of my life. I don't want one someone that's just looking to do it every now and then. Ideal for me is a dynamic throughout the week, kinky events on the weekends, and kinky vacations throughout the year.

Vanilla me: I also do photography, weightlifting, and make things (both kinky and not). Big film buff too, especially horror and bad ones. Engineer by trade with the government but it requires that I maintain discretion. I'm 5' 10", a muscular 180, and white with black hair. I can share neck down pictures if you'd like to see me as well.

Kinky me: Control is my biggest kink and latex is definitely my weakness. The greatest joy I have is improving a partner's life through kink, and the training, guidance, or accountability that comes with that. Id really like a sub who wants me to care for them and guide them through life. I do not tolerate disrespect, so brats can expect to be gagged and/or bound if mouthy. Obviously this is all something that is built towards, I'd expect to take things over time, and establish a dynamic that gets deeper and more intense over time.

This is just a bit about me so let me know what you are interested in and want to discuss. Again, I want someone genuine so please don't play games.