Hi, I'm James!

I'm hoping to find someone that I vibe well with, who I also sometimes submit to. Think playing games then tying me up on the card table afterwards sort of vibe.

I work in manufacturing and have some other obligations so I'm not available 24/7, but I am a lot of the time

I enjoy things like PC building, gaming, cycling, hiking, you know, STUFF! I really like experiencing new hobbies and things. Pretty go with the flow most of the time

WHY should you reach out to me over the other 999,420,069 posts you've seen today? I think because my biggest turn on is doing something that you find arousing. Even things that I don't think are all that fun I probably like if you're really into it. For example, I don't think cum tastes good. I don't want it in my mouth, but if you tell me to lick it off the floor I'm going to do it and it's going to be really arousing for me.

I like things like bondage and orgasm control. I love being exposed and kept in a perceptual state of arousal. I have a fantasy where I spend a weekend with you and I have to stay naked and edge every few minutes to stay aroused the entire time.

I'm hoping to find someone that has fun being in control. I'm not looking for someone that is super derogatory, if you open the conversation with "boy" we're probably not compatible. My goal is to reach a comfort level where you feel like you can take control when you want and we're both on the same page. I think it would be annoying to have to ask a sub if it's okay to do something every step of the way, I imagine you do too.

Your body type/Appearance isn't that important to me. I'll like you for other reasons

Obviously this will likely be remote because you know, the earth is sorta big. I'm open to IRL if the logistics work out, I travel a lot so anywhere is within reach but I'm also realistic. I'd like to reach a point where we're sometimes video calling with me on screen and you talking or showing if you're comfortable. Of course we'd message primarily, but I'd like to communicate past messaging eventually.

SFW Selfie