Hello all! Hopefully you're doing well. If this post is up you can assume I'm still looking. Anyway, as the title suggests, personality wise, I'm overall a pretty kind and caring individual. I'm very relaxed when it comes to most things and I can be somewhat a stoic reserved type, but am very chatty with my close friends or with a partner. I will also admit I am super affectionate.

My interests are more where that nerdiness comes into play. I love reading, fantasy and science fiction specifically. If I don't have a book in hand I generally have one in ear that I'm listening to. Besides reading I enjoy board and video games, swimming, anime, dnd, cooking and baking, a good cocktails, trying new places, and tea (boba too!). I may or may not have a tea addiction...

As for what I'm looking for, ideally I'd like a long term relationship. However I'm not opposed to something more casual and encourage you to reach out if you think we'd be a good fit. I just am generally hoping to find something long term.

Before I get to kinks and what I look like I just want to mention something for my Chicagoians who are interested. I moved to the burbs over a year ago to save money while changing careers. Now have a lovely new job, I'm going to be moving back into the city sometime in either April or May. I can get into the city on the weekends before then if you to meet / date before then.

Now physically I'm 30, tall, pale, moderately attractive, mostly fit (can't wait to get back into a pool after the move), with long dark blonde hair, a well kept ginger beard, and because this is a kink reddit, well endowed. I'm happy to verify if we start chatting. Also note that I don't really have a hair preference for myself so I'm fine cutting it for a partner.

Kink wise I enjoy quite a lot. I'm a fairly experienced switch leaning Dom. Most of my experience is as a dom and I'm more than happy to play only play a dom if you're not into switching. I'm open to only being a sub as well but I don't have a ton of experience soley being one so it might not be for me. When it comes to experience let me say I don't care what experience level you're at. I'm cool with you being new to this and only just starting to explore or if you're already experienced and well trained, all I ask is you be open to explore. If you are experienced or know what you like, know I have quite a lot of kinks so chances are we share quite a lot of them. We can talk more about specifics if we start chatting.

If I sound like someone you'd like to get to know give me a shout! Though please send a dm, my mobile app doesn't do chat.