I have been a submissive off and on for a long time (10 ish years), both in person and online. I tend to hold it close to my chest and it takes the right person to bring it out of me. In my everyday life I tend to be confident and in control, but I crave a space to let my submissive side out. I want to find someone who makes me feel safe, sexy, and who can help me explore all the ways I want to grow as a person.
I am married, happily so, but he is not a Dom. He's aware that I am looking for someone to fill that role in my life. These two things will be kept separate for the most part.
I tend to be a bit of a smart ass, but I am also caring and kind. I want to find someone I can have good banter with both sexual and non-sexual. Someone I can share everything with, even the dark or shameful things. Someone who encourages me to be better, and who will call me out on my bullshit.
Kinks include - orgasm control, spanking, choking, hair pulling, nipple play, CNC, humiliation/degradation, etc.
Limits - anything illegal, anything that will affect my job or marriage, electricity, toilet stuff
Vanilla interests include - reading, swimming, dancing, board games, travel, etc.
If you think we'd be a good match let me know, tell me something about yourself and why you think we will click.
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