I'm looking for my meat shield. The person I can hide behind at parties. The light I can bask in, the one that lets me get a taste of the social life I crave without the stranger danger of having to be the center of attention myself. I like my men with more of a big bro's best friend or Senpai vibe, so I'd prefer someone around 35-38.

I'm shy until I warm up to people, and I find I warm up fastest through voice, so let's hop in a call and play some games. Do you know Gomoku?

About Me:

I'm 34, a returning college student, and recently switched my major to Psychology. Love gaming and especially when it involves healslutting. I'm a brat and love playful dynamics with lots of mutual care and communication. I need to be able to support my partner every bit as much as they support me. It's non-negotiable. Mutual vulnerability is a must.

I'm okay with where I'm at in life. I don't need someone to give my life meaning so much as I want someone to enhance the experience of living. Someone to feel close to. Yes, camping is fun but how much better is it with your person? Travelling is neat, but sharing the experience of new places is even better. I love Spain, but how much more enjoyable would it be if you were there, too? Sure, I can tune out movies on my own - but I'd much rather tune them out with my head in your lap instead. With that said, space is still important. Your life should also be fulfilling.

About You:

Genuinely kind. Not because you want praise (in fact most people will never know what you've done for them) but because it's the right thing to do. The sort of person who sees people in distress and helps, because the world is already full of so much suffering and easing some part of it is the least we can do.

As previously mentioned - 35-38. Comfortable in social situations. Enjoys the playfulness and banter of brat dynamics. Able to craft an introduction that lures the recipient into conversation and isn't just a list of your kinks.