Hi everyone! I'm a tall (6'4"), gainfully employed, and reasonably athletic guy living in DC. During the daytime I'm one of those suit-and-tie clad policy wonks but I'll be much more fun in the evening, I promise.

I have experience in both vanilla and non-vanilla relationships, but I've now realized the d/s dynamic is required for my personal fulfillment. Over time I've found the value of being up-front with my desires rather than rolling the dice. While I work relatively long hours, I believe in prioritizing personal relationships - both romantic and platonic - and will always find time for those I care about.

Outside of the bedroom I enjoy the outdoors, skiing, running, board games, and cooking. I tend to fall into endless Wikipedia rabbit holes and get along great with curious individuals who are passionate about learning new things. That said, I'm more extraverted than introverted and try to maintain an active social life. I've also traveled to 20 countries and am always looking to swap stories. Postgrad educated but believe credentialism is silly.

In the bedroom, I'm looking for a partner who craves the submissive role, is eager to please, and enjoys a structured but caring dynamic. I like lists and rules and appropriate punishments when broken, but not looking for brats who disobey for the fun of it. I also enjoy restraints and have a decent collection going, if you're interested. In summary I'm a soft dom with a rough side. Happy to share more if we chat.

Ideally I'm looking for someone around my age but am open to a wider range as long as we have a good connection. Having an active and healthy lifestyle is important to me as well. Please be fully vaccinated too. Bonus points if you're into fantasy or science fiction. If you're still reading at this point and are interested, comment below or shoot me a PM directly!