Serious inquiries only. Please be in the United States or Canada only. Time difference is a big thing for me. I’d like someone I can talk to frequently throughout the day. Please contact me with a well thought out, thorough message if you are interested.

A bit about me: I’m 5’0”, white, long dirty blonde hair, brown eyes, small with a curvy chest. Im single, work full time. I have 2 dogs that keep me busy. I enjoy reality tv shows, music, social media. I’m very laid back, sassy, independent, loyal

What I’m looking for: I’m seeking a Dominant man between the ages of 30-40 for an online long-term relationship. (Younger than 30 is mostly likely not going to work as I’m looking for a decent age gap) Please be single. I would like to allow this to grow slowly and naturally. I don’t want it to have too many expectations but if things go well and progress deep enough, I am open to in-person, one day.

I expect most of our communication will be via text, especially in the beginning. As things progress we can talk about working towards things like photos, audio messages, potentially video chatting, etc.

I’m looking for a Goldilocks situation of sorts. A Dom who isn’t too sweet but isn’t too stern. Someone who can dabble in a few dynamics. Someone who’s a great conversation starter. Someone who can easily find a good balance and keep me on my toes. I’d like to be friends and be able to chat about a lot of stuff, but I also don’t expect the conversation to remain solely vanilla. I want to feel like I’m slowly submitting to you. Like you’re slowly wiggling into my mind and consuming me. I don’t want to know what’s coming next. I want you to use your power and your creativity and your skills as a man to put me into a submissive state and keep me there. Whatever way you have to. Headgames, manipulation, praise, degradation, rewards, punishments, tasks, micromanaging. I want to feel nervous, embarrassed, eager, excited, anticipation, proud.

I want to talk. I want to talk a lot. This isn’t role playing. This is real. I want someone I can spend the day chatting with. Obviously real life takes priority at times, but if you’re not up for pretty consistent chatting, this isn’t for you.

It’s important to me that a man be charismatic, confident, intelligent, domineering, patient, stern, engaging, creative, compassionate, and emotionally intelligent. Someone with experience who knows what he expects out of a woman and how to take her her there. Someone who appreciates taking things slow and really getting inside the mind. And when I say slow I don’t mean you have to wait to bring up kink or establish some deep friendship, I just meant be methodical in your approach. Be smart and witty. Please for the love of god be a conversationalist. I am so sick of having the same bland boring conversations. Please do not ask redundant questions.

To me the mental aspects of BDSM are the most important, especially in the beginning. I need to feel like I am heard and understood in order to properly submit and get in the right headspace.

I’ve never been in a D/s relationship before but I’ve spent quite a few years studying them and trying to get a grasp on why I feel so drawn to this, and eventually fully accept it. I often find myself riddled with self doubt and insecurity when it comes to my curiosity and desires to be submissive. I’m looking for the man who can help me fully embrace my submissiveness and mold, break, bend, shape me into the perfect good girl for him.

I’m looking for structure, tasks, accountability, rules. I’m looking for friendship and guidance. I’m looking for maturity and strength. Most importantly I’m looking for fun and an engaging experience I can grow from.

Kinks: orgasm control and denial, TPE, free use, light mostly verbal degradation/humiliation, psychological bdsm, teasing, misogyny, mind games

Limits: blood, scat, animals, watersports, heavy abuse, feet