I am looking for a real relationship, not just D/s or M/s, or something even less complicated like a scene, but an honest to goodness relationship with someone kink-positive or kink-friendly. I am looking for a woman who is ready to settle down but not in a way that means we don't go out and have fun. I also want to do D/s, whether that's in the bedroom or throughout our daily lives. I want to build trust with someone and have a deep connection. I want something that is meaningful and also fun.

So, with that out of the way, some further details. I am a Master. I have also been a Dominant in some previous relationships, but I have disciplined my own life to where I feel Master is the right title for me now. I am happy to discuss specific interests related to kink but you should at least expect that I am on the left side of the slash. I understand the responsibility that comes with taking on that role for someone who is looking for structure, accountability, and consistency and that is what I offer. I also want to enjoy scenes, get rough, be playful, enjoy the breadth of what kink can offer. This may also mean that I want to be little spoon sometimes when I need that kind of comfort. I know what I want, so let's discuss.

I also know that all relationships are partnerships first and foremost. Both my partner and I must be invested for it to work. I hope to find someone with whom I can share this journey.

I have a stable career and goals. I work from home full time so I yearn for more social interaction and spend time with friends when available. I own a house and enjoy indoor and outdoor hobbies such as gardening, woodworking, cooking, reading, working out, video games, movies. I am a huge nerd and have a game night with my friends. I would love to hear about your interests and share stories. I love when someone spins a good yarn. I try to work on myself and learn whenever possible. I'm not huge on travel but I have a few destinations in mind.

I want to be clear, I want a relationship where BDSM is a focus or at least with a partner that has an open mind.

Looking for someone around my age, but open to anyone who feels this is what they're looking for.

If that sounds like you, please message me and tell me what you found interesting about my post.