I hope that adding "lifetime" to the title already gives you an idea that I'm looking for something long term. And that I want something meaningful with my partner/submissive, I want us to also be best friends. Maybe that's just making it more difficult? I can only hope!

I give up on trying to make my post short, it's just not happening, so you have been warned!

I'm 31 years old, living in the UK since a few years ago. I'm 178 cm and around 86 kg, no really fit but not fat either. I was going to the gym before the whole pandemic took over, and now I should really start again. If you're from around then maybe we could go hiking someday?

I really enjoy DIY stuff, from building and fixing stuff to crafts. If you have any hobby like that I'll probably love to talk about it, and will be very excited about it for you too! I consider myself a serious person in the sense that I don't do things half-heartedly, but that doesn't mean I don't like having fun with my partner. Specially silly things like having a picnic in the living room, discussing why pancakes on the moon are better than on earth, anything really. Nonsensical conversations at 1 am are the best.

I really enjoy video games, although I only play them for fun and don't have much of a competitive side. To be honest, I actually don't do it that much anymore, at least not on my own, I'd love to find someone to play coop games with. Specially chill ones like Terraria, Stardew Valley, Valheim, I think you get the picture. I'd love to find something we can play together, and that's also one of the best ways to chat and get to know each other =) Although being on a voice call while doing our own thing (doesn't have to be video games) would be nice too!

I'm looking for a 25-32 year submissive. I don't care too much for labels, so I don't want to say just "pet" or "slave" or any of that. Ideally, you live in the UK as well, although I'm okay with starting online as long as we know that it'll become a real life thing at some point in the future (however long that may take). Connecting with the right person is much more important.

Now onto the bdsm topics:

• The long term goal would be a 24/7 relationship (do remember that this doesn't mean you would be in chains 24/7, that's unrealistic). I know this takes a _long_ time to achieve.
• I like the idea of having complete ownership over my submissive. Leaning towards TPE (again, knowing that this only happens after a long time and a lot of trust has been built). I want to make all the decisions for both of us while you only have to focus on being a good pet.
• I love bondage, in every way, shape and form. If you don't like tight rope bondage, then I'm afraid it won't work for us.
• Orgasm control and denial. Long term denial, with plenty of edging and stimulation in between of course. Just to clarify, long term means weeks or more (could be even more if you're really into it as well). I want to condition my sub to not be able to orgasm without permission.
• I want my pet to become somewhat dependent on me. I don't mean financially, I will always encourage you to be successful in your career and all of that (I do like a smart pet!), but I want my submissive to became slightly obsessed with me and having the idea of pleasing her Master always at the top, always thinking of me, even sharing whatever silly little thing just happened in your day that got you excited. If you're a needy and clingy girl that's perfect! I'm a very stable and consistent person, so I think it could be a good match. I want to become your safe place, the person that gives structure, consistency and purpose to your (our?) life.

Bonus: as you can see, I tend to write a lot... so you'll never lack messages when chatting with me! =D