Hey there, I'm a 42yo polyamorous male seeking an online playmate for LDR and possibly more. I've been involved in the bdsm lifestyle since 1999 and have extensive experience in several areas of play, including: impact play, aftercare and several others.

I'm quite protective and like to see my sub happy, healthy, well cared for and succeeding in life.

I'm ok with both sexual and non-sexual dynamic styles but I do require vetting and negotiations before we do more than chat. This is for both of us so feelings don't get hurt simply because something has been missed.

I'm looking for someone that enjoys being praised and reminded of their daily tasks. I'm a pretty open book, so if it's sexual in nature, I'm happy to discuss kinks and what we both want from the dynamic/play. If it's non-sexual that can be discussed as well, just please let me know up front so I leave out the sexual aspects from the beginning.

If you're interested in talking more, drop me a line here or a message and mention this sub.

Thanks.