The Basics: 40 y/o seeking single, monogamous 30-45 y/o. We will start slow and meet in a public vanilla setting to see if there is a connection. Physical: 5'4", natural curly hair, fit. Pics included.

I am a fun, creative, pansexual dominant looking for a monogamous service-minded partner to form a long-lasting relationship. I have a thing for masc-leaning folks. I have so many crushes on masc lesbians it's crazy lol.

About me: I am a dominant that loves service done well and with a smile. I am friendly and outgoing, which is reflected in my consistent activity within the kink community including the socials I host. I believe in a service-based dynamic. A relationship with me will not be primarily scene-based. I do enjoy some BDSM play but am more interested in building an overarching service-centered relationship. For my vanilla side, I love hiking, creative writing, and taking photography and pottery clases. Huge meditator and someone who loves meeting new people. I am absolutely that person that follows a hundred good book Instagrams.

Looking for: Someone emotionally intelligent, who would love to grow into an M/s dynamic and takes pleasure in structure and my loving style of discipline. Although this is easily misinterpreted, I am looking for a house-"husband" (hh). Someone who finds fulfillment in supporting my vision and dreams. Who is nurtuing and loves making me feel seen and heard after a long day. Grabbing me a beer when I step into the door will always get you Brownie Point. I absolutely support my hh having hobbies and passion and goals, but I love the idea of someone's highest purpose being as a support to me. Again, I know this can be easily misunderstood to mean I am looking for a doormat or someone without a life of their own. I. Am. Not. I am not looking to cage someone with power exchange but to set them free. I believe in building a healthy dynamic, where we laugh often. Hoping to find someone who knows themeslves well and can articulate what they are looking for. What does a day in the life with your dominant look like? Love deep conversations? Are you equally as involved in the D/s or M/s community? Been to educational workshops, read books, or gone to conferences? Are you eager to give back to the community through volunteering and supporting my hosting efforts?

I am happy to train you in the ways I prefer things to be done but am well-aware I can't train you to have a hh heart.
Pics: https://imgur.com/HQkSRLU

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