I am looking for a dominant partner for a long-term connection. I'm hoping to find someone local, but I'm open to online as well. Chatting and/or role-playing is also welcome. I wish to be able to add this aspect back in my life, be able to explore it more, and continue learning. It is something that has been missing for far too long.

I am a switch, but do not switch inside a dynamic once it is established. I'm also poly and have a submissive partner right now. I'm 5'9", a little extra around the middle (working on that), brown hair, short beard, and hazel eyes.

Outside of the bedroom, I enjoy gaming, movies, reading, traveling, and just hanging out in good company. I drink socially and smoke a cigar a couple of times a year. I am pet free and live on my own. I am a vet and current EMT. I do work full-time, so that limits my time, but I can text through most of the day.

Kinkwise, I'm very open-minded and into most things. I have been in the lifestyle for about 14 years to various degrees of activity, but I am looking to dive back into the deep end.

My favorite kinks are bondage, rope, puppy play, humiliation, chastity, rough body play, power exchange, toys, strap ons, plugs, public play, blindfolds, and more.

My biggest limits are no financial exchange or urethral insertions. I am working on building up my pain tolerance, but right now, heavy pain is a soft limit. Needles don't do anything for me, and blood makes me think of work, so not into those either.

I am currently working on getting in shape, learning more about cooking, learning to tie rope, and getting better at ice skating. Any help with these goals is greatly appreciated.

I am always interested in meeting other military/veterans or health care personnel. I am looking for someone old enough to get a drink at a bar with, but no age preference outside of that.

Thank you for your time and consideration. I hope to hear from you soon.