Hello there! A little about me: I’m a fairly experienced Dom looking for a sweet sub I can call my own and really dedicate my affection to. I’ve just had a life change— new job, got a house, woo!— that allows me to pursue a D/s lifestyle a little more realistically, and I’m looking for the right sub to be the other half of that equation.

I’m a journalist and a writer, now editor, so that comes with a lot of intellectual curiosity and question asking. Be prepared for lots of attention when I’m in a good mood. I expect open communication and plenty of chatting about likes and dislikes— both directly associated with BDSM life, and more casually.

Appearance-wise, I’m 6’4”, brown curly hair, blue eyes, glasses, trimmed beard. I’m generally fit, not quite gym bro levels, but I stay healthy. I’ve received compliments on my voice before, so I guess that sort of applies.

I hope for something leaning toward the D/s lifestyle side of the spectrum. Yes, there will be plenty of kinky fun involved, but I also find everyday rule-setting, routine and role sharing D/s to be very fulfilling. I adore picking my sub’s outfits, accessorizing her, setting rules to help her with her choice of habits, and generally having the parlance of D/s be a part of everyday life.

Now, I will admit that soft-dom is my everyday default, but when sex is involved, I can have a very rough side. Kinks include hair pulling, choking, free use, light bondage, degradation, primal, and in some cases cnc. I guarantee aftercare every time, and I guarantee I will respect your limits 100%.

I would love to get to know you if you think we’d suit each other— or hell, even if you just want to chat BDSM in general. Drop me a dm, I look forward to it.

Just a quick edit here: I’m open to and expect plenty of online interaction before taking any of these steps, so don’t feel like just because we don’t have the opportunity to interact IRL this post isn’t for you too 👍