Whoah there. The first week of 2023 is already coming to an end. As is my wine.

The thing about wine, you can read all the reviews you can find. The ones displayed in a beautiful font on a retina ready backdrop written by a pipe smoking 30-something connoisseur. And it would not matter one bit.
You can't taste the hints of vanilla, the cheeky berries growing next to the grapes, the spice of the soil, the nuttiness from the barrel. Not unless your buds were primed. For if you don't know what the absence of a note is like, you can't appreciate its presence.

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Okay... Is this a space for Bourdeaux Decanting Subs for Monsieurs?

No but the parallels are on point!

You see a poster (not unlike me) may wax eloquent about how great they are and how well they know themselves and what their future partner should be like. Only when that partner actually turns up, aerates the poster's desires, partakes in a journey of experiences, the tasting notes align with the expectations. Otherwise it's all the same.

#~@#!

Fine. I'm older, hopefully wiser, still fun if not funnier.* My requirements have not changed much. I still take my time with things, with trust and sharing. I like to get to know you, what inspires you, what makes you go. I love to help and guide and I will not turn away from your bad spots, your fears, insecurities and whatever makes you pause. I'm not looking for a one off play, I'm looking for a relationship, kinky if possible. Speaking of kinks, I am a dom leaning switch who's interested in a relationship that starts online, progresses offline because it's long term and stays monogamous (even when online). Subs, pets, dommes, switches, all are welcome to DM. I only ask that you be patient and involved (and 25-35 years old).

I am kind and caring as a person. As a dom I am also stern with some sadistic tendencies. Exactly opposite as a sub. Caring how? I will not only give you a release but also push you to grow and reach your goals, if you need that. I would not intrude, obviously. That said, it is pretty normal in a relationship and I would like us to be comfortable enough to share aspirations and struggles outside of kink. I am creative with tasks/punishments and don't need sex toys. I can get micro managing sometimes but I respond well to feedback. It doesn't matter if you are new to kink or experienced as long as you have an expressive personality. If we click, I will likely chat with you everyday (and randomly throughout the day), share playlists, youtube together and what not. I am open to new experiences as long as they are ad free and respect privacy. I am into all sensual kinks but I don't like lists too much. We can discuss them later. I take privacy and online safety seriously. Any public exposure is off limits. That means no sharing identifiable photos and largely limits video interactions. That also means no messaging on the popular insecure apps (kik/snap/wickr/whatever else).

If you are cool with all of this, message me directly in chat. Tell me how you spent new year's eve or what you want to do before the week is over. Despite the long post, I can be fun to chat with.

~sips wine and nonchalantly stares at the window.~

^\Full disclosure: popular opinion seems to tilt on the not.)