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I have been looking for a Sub to own and train for a long time. Part of that is my fault due to not correctly specifying what I want. Many times a sub has contacted me looking to submit only for us to find out that we are not a good match. Because of this I will be first listing what I do not what to save you from wasting your time reading this lengthy ad. (apologies in advance for my directness)
What I am NOT looking for:
- Brats
- Subs that wish to be constantly degraded and humiliated 24/7
- Subs that want to submit immediately.
- Subs that are only in this for sexual gratification.
- Not looking for long term.
I take this lifestyle seriously and while it should be something fun there will be times where discipline will take priority over fun.
If you want any of these things then I wish you good luck because I am not the Dominant for you, I am sorry.
ME
I am a 30 year old male Dominant from Australia. University Graduate. I am fit as I exercise regularly. I am tall, over 6 feet tall and while this Ad has been rather dry I can assure you that I do have a good sense of humor. I am Caucasian with Brown hair, my eyes greenish to blueish and think I am good looking. I am a stern Dominant but also quite forgiving, often giving warnings before a punishment is given. Respect is something I require at all times, I understand that you might get pissed at me sometimes but that doesn’t mean that you can't still be respectful as you express yourself, and I will take any issues you have seriously.
Experience wise I have had 3 24/7 online dynamics and 2 IRL dynamics. I know what I am doing and I know what I want.
I am looking for someone to give me Control. As much as you are willing to give. Control of when and how you can cum, What clothes to wear etc. This control aspect will be the foundation of our dynamic as well as weekly inspections. I won’t go into too much detail because I want you to have input into the creation of our dynamic and what you want, however, I am looking for someone that wants to please and serve.
I want a friend and someone I can talk to about kink as we explore what interests us. Hopefully moving to another messaging app and having voice chats once we are comfortable (down the line). Open to this becoming long term if we fit. I am in Australia but people in Asian zones can work. Also U.S. time zones work by use checking in with the mornings and evenings. Feel free to message if you aren't in these time zones I am sure we can work things out.
This well be a 24/7 Total power exchange dynamic with check ins during the morning, evening and through out the day. I understand that people can be busy and so the dynamic will be shaped in a way that is workable with our regular lives.
As stated above I do not want to jump straight into this dynamic and want to spend a day or two getting to know each other and what we like kink wise. After that if we feel that we are a good fit then we are state a trial period of a week or so see if the dynamic works and after that we can talk about officially become a Dom/Sub dynamic.
To start out you will be give a few simple tasks and rules to follow, the aim of which is to not overwhelm you at the outset of the dynamic. Once you have proven you are able to handle these responsibilities/duties you will be given more.
Your duties will involve the following;
- Training (deep throat and anal and others)
- little bit of pain
- orgasm control/denial
- bed time control
- clothing and grooming control
- and more
(This might seem like a lot but remember that this won't be all at once)
PICTURES
Ahhhh, yes, pictures. No doubt some of you have read this and knowing that it is a limit of yours are about to close this ad. To you I am sorry for making you read this far before talking about this but the reason I didn't list it above is because I want to talk about this in some detail. If pictures are a Hard limit of yours then there is no point of you read on, I wish you luck in finding the right Dominant for you. Pictures and video will be required (no face) as proof of you doing the tasks and so that we can feel closer. I am a visual guy and I need that in the dynamic. I understand that Trust is needed for some to feel comfortable doing that, but lets agree that NSFW pictures and video will be required "soonish" into the dynamic. Of course I will want to exchange SFW pictures at the start to verify that we are both real. So if this sounds agreeable to you then please read on.
YOU
lets see.... hmmm... well of course, please be an Adult female haha. someone who is already somewhat capable of taking care of yourself. Please have enough privacy to be able to perform your duties. Have a sense of humor or at least laugh at my dumb jokes. If you are a virgin or new to this then that’s perfectly fine as I have a great deal of patience and love to teach so please don't be discouraged from contacting me as I know that can hold some people back. Please be younger than myself. other than that I can't think of anything else physically.
Be eager to learn and respectful at all times. Submissively speaking, you are a service based submissive that loves nothing more than to be called a 'good girl' for pleasing her dominant and being rewarded for her attentive service. Sending pictures and exposing yourself to me should be something that excites you as it will be a core part of the dynamic.
Congratulations you have made it to the end, haha. If you would like to contact me you can do so here but I will want to move to another messaging app soonish.
To show me that you have read my entire ad please don't simply send me a message saying "hey". Instead I want you to tell me what about my ad you liked that made you want to contact me. Please also include basic information about yourself.
Looking forward to hearing from you!
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