About me: 31-year-old male, health professional, wannabe adventurer who loves travel, reading, gym and nerd who likes carnivorous plants, fantasy/sci-fi, LARP and history.

Appearance: 5’5 (165cm), 65kg (stocky build of a guy who loves lifting heavy weights and KFC equally), Australian of Vietnamese descent. If that’s not your cup of tea I understand, thanks for visiting. Still interested? Keep reading.

Personality: Easy going and open minded, career and financially savvy, motivated, gentle, strong paternal instincts, kind, extremely self-aware, high levels of empathy and emotional intelligence. Honestly kinky me and vanilla me are two different people where vanilla me is a strong advocate for women’s rights and female empowerment while kinky me is into forcibly sodomising submissive women. Yes, I’m weird. Also I am a man of extremes, its either human panda in hibernation or climbing mountain on other side of the world. There is no in between.

Looking for: Genuine long-term vanilla relationship, gym buddy, travel companion and kinky partner. So, vanilla in the streets but extremely spicy in the sheets where we can live out our most twisted and darkest fantasies.

Kinks: anal (I'm an ass man looking for a self-proclaimed 'anal whore', cliché I know), CNC, butt plugs (hopefully worn on a cute date or just going out), abduction, captivity, hair pulling, choking, spanking, caging, collar and leash, wardrobe control, schoolgirl/school uniforms, master/slave, dd/lg, role play, bondage and humiliation/degradation. Am also a fan of aftercare, affection and cuddles. Open to your suggestions and personal favorite kinks.

Limits: inflicting hard pain, leaving permanent scars/marks, urine, scat (see too much of that at work already), needles, knives/weapons, mutilation, gore, animals, anything illegal. Will respect all your limits along with safe words.

About you: Sydney or NSW local. Twenties to thirties. Height irrelevant, I’ve been into petite and tall women. Strongly prefer average/skinny/slim/fit builds. Have a slight preference towards Caucasian women BUT will not exclude women on other ethnicities if there is a strong connection.

Perks: Having been on the receiving end of toxic masculinity I well aware of it and refuse to ever become one of those types of men which is extremely ironic given the sub we are on. I also have high levels of empathy meaning I will be a great listener. I will support and motivate your personal goals and dreams. Very big on safety, preparation and big fan of aftercare.

Given the nature of some of my kinks and also the fact that I want a LTR too I’m willing to take it slow and get to know you a as a whole person before we even get into the kinky side. When you are comfortable with meeting up, we will meet in a public place in broad daylight for your safety and comfort. Finally, you can call it quits at any time if you are not feeling comfortable or for whatever reason. Hoping to hear from you soon.