Hi there! I’m “Kay” 😊

I am married, ENM, and searching solo for an on-going casual relationship. (Please only continue reading if you are accepting of non-traditional relationship structures).

Although I am happily married (no kids) to an amazing and supportive vanilla partner, I’m looking for a communicative, playful and kind person who also wants to spice up their romantic and social life.

What I Offer:

• I’m a multi-faceted Dom who likes using bondage, shibari, toys and accessories to enhance sessions from moment to moment.
• I don’t mind taking the lead to orchestrate your enjoyment because the planning and build-up is what I value the most. I can be a Daddy, Master or Owner depending on what your kinks are.
• As an artist and designer I can offer creative pathways to express our fantasies together. I really like crafting things that hold symbolic and materialistic qualities for the lifestyle and my sub (wood, metal, rope, leather etc).
• I can offer a mature, communicative and supportive shoulder for you to express yourself openly and authentically.
• I’m open-minded and will try anything once. I also strongly believe in aftercare, RACK, SSC and PRICK principles of consent and safety.

A little about me:

• I'm quiet, introverted and quite shy in real life. I keep cool under pressure and manage people and projects for a living. My Dom side is where I come out of my shell.
• I am 6'1" with a slim-average build. Brown eyes, black hair and caramel skin. i like to keep fit, but haven’t been to the gym in a while due to studies.
• I like Sci-Fi & fantasy genres, boardgames/ gaming, true-crime & techie sorta things.
• Based in the CBD, and studying a second Masters degree here. Planning to stay for the long haul.
• I’m very well groomed, hygienic, non-smoker, drug-free and I drink occasionally.
• Physical Touch and Quality Time are my key love languages. I also love wining and dining company with home-cooked gourmet meals.

What I am looking for:

• You are aged between 21-45, any ethnicity, any orientation. If you are partnered it must be consensual.
• You are relatively in shape.
• You are curious or experienced with ⛓️🖤🪢
• Located in or around Melbourne and open to meeting irl after getting to know each other first.
• I’m really just looking for a patient and present friend to explore my sensuality and intimacy with. We could talk about ourselves online, and meet up a few times a month to explore the more physical side of things.

I still remain optimistic that my Twin Flame is out there somewhere. If you think that’s you, please tell me about your background and what you are looking for. Would be lovely if you sent a photo as well!

Thanks for reading this far!

Sincerely,

Kay